On Sunday morning, I put on my usual church outfit, and it fit. By the time I got home, it was tight. I have a definite bump today. I figured once it started I'd grow pretty fast, but wow! Luckily, I lost enough weight in the last year that I have not one but two sizes of pants in storage that I can work my way up through before I jump to maternity clothes.
Of course, I'm not sure all of it is baby related. The cyst that was golf-ball size last Wednesday was large-chicken-egg size on Monday and has been hurting quite a bit yesterday and today. I can feel it with palpitation, so I'm sure it's grown some more since then. I wish the stupid thing would burst. I'd much prefer two hours of level 10 pain to two weeks of level 8 pain. I hate taking meds under normal circumstances and especially while pregnant. They say vicodin is safe for pregnancy, but it still makes my uneasy.
OT: I checked my blog stat counter today. Before the big announcement, I was averaging 25 hits a day. Since, it's been well over 100! So that's how you get more traffic! LOL
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Monday, December 29, 2008
The Appointment Went GREAT!
We were at the office for almost 3 hours. Some of that was paperwork and bloodwork. We spent a half hour in the sono room, and there are definitely two heartbeats. The tech said she couldn't be completely sure, but it appeared there were two separate sacks, which makes fraternal twins (DZ) more likely, but identical (MZ) are still possible. Heartbeats were both ideal for 9 weeks. Baby A was measuring 8weeks 5days, baby B 9weeks even, and I'm supposed to be 8w6d, so pretty much dead on for due date.
Then we spent an hour and a half with the midwife. I am SO GLAD we're seeing her. I'm her first set of twins, so I'll be seeing her exclusively until 20 weeks, then see her and the OB together until the end, and both will attend our birth. They weren't planning to send me to MFM (high risk specialist) unless something specific came up. I was very impressed that no one was approaching my care as a disaster waiting to happen, even after they learned my PE history.
We talked at length about PE. I'm starting vitamin D supplements now, which have shown promise in reducing risk. Later on, I may start low-dose aspirin therapy, and I may try dandelion root as well. We'll monitor my BP closely.
The best thing was her position on inductions and c-sections. They don't do elective inductions, only for complications, and they refuse to do "too posh to push" elective c-sections either. When I asked the "what if I refused" questions, she said that even if we strongly suspected a c-section would be likely (and assuming there were no complications requiring immediate delivery) they'd still let me go into labor on my own and deal with the possible surgery if it came up. This was a huge relief to me, as I was scared I'd be pressured into a c-section or induction at 37 weeks just because twins are "supposed" to come early.
So I'm very happy with my provider and care. Now we just need to pray my BP cooperates and both babies stay happy.
Then we spent an hour and a half with the midwife. I am SO GLAD we're seeing her. I'm her first set of twins, so I'll be seeing her exclusively until 20 weeks, then see her and the OB together until the end, and both will attend our birth. They weren't planning to send me to MFM (high risk specialist) unless something specific came up. I was very impressed that no one was approaching my care as a disaster waiting to happen, even after they learned my PE history.
We talked at length about PE. I'm starting vitamin D supplements now, which have shown promise in reducing risk. Later on, I may start low-dose aspirin therapy, and I may try dandelion root as well. We'll monitor my BP closely.
The best thing was her position on inductions and c-sections. They don't do elective inductions, only for complications, and they refuse to do "too posh to push" elective c-sections either. When I asked the "what if I refused" questions, she said that even if we strongly suspected a c-section would be likely (and assuming there were no complications requiring immediate delivery) they'd still let me go into labor on my own and deal with the possible surgery if it came up. This was a huge relief to me, as I was scared I'd be pressured into a c-section or induction at 37 weeks just because twins are "supposed" to come early.
So I'm very happy with my provider and care. Now we just need to pray my BP cooperates and both babies stay happy.
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Questions for the OB
Tomorrow I have a sono scheduled, followed by my first meeting with the midwife at my new OB's office. I'm working on a list of questions to ask.
1. How often will you routinely perform general exams? Internals? Sonograms?
2. What general tests do you recommend? Insist upon?
3. What tests specific to twins and/or pre-eclampsia do you recommend? Insist upon?
4. Under what circumstances would you suggest bedrest? Insist upon bedrest? What does bedrest mean to you?
5. Under what circumstances would you suggest induction? Insist upon induction? What if I refused?
6. Under what circumstances would you suggest c-section? Insist upon c-section? What if I refused?
7. How many sets of twins have you attended? How many breech births have you attended? How often have you dealt with PE/HELLP?
8. Under what circumstances would you transfer my care?
ETA:
9. What are my chances of getting PE again?
10. Will you test for any underlying conditions of PE? What, if anything, can I do to prevent it?
11. Do you suggest I see a high-risk specialist as part of my routine care? How often would I see him/her if there are no complications?
12. What supplements should I take and when should I start taking them?
13. How often will my blood be tested and what will you be testing for? Will you call me with the results or should I call you?
14. How seriously will you (or your on-call partners) take me if I call with even the slightest symptom?
If you can add to this list, I would greatly appreciate it.
1. How often will you routinely perform general exams? Internals? Sonograms?
2. What general tests do you recommend? Insist upon?
3. What tests specific to twins and/or pre-eclampsia do you recommend? Insist upon?
4. Under what circumstances would you suggest bedrest? Insist upon bedrest? What does bedrest mean to you?
5. Under what circumstances would you suggest induction? Insist upon induction? What if I refused?
6. Under what circumstances would you suggest c-section? Insist upon c-section? What if I refused?
7. How many sets of twins have you attended? How many breech births have you attended? How often have you dealt with PE/HELLP?
8. Under what circumstances would you transfer my care?
ETA:
9. What are my chances of getting PE again?
10. Will you test for any underlying conditions of PE? What, if anything, can I do to prevent it?
11. Do you suggest I see a high-risk specialist as part of my routine care? How often would I see him/her if there are no complications?
12. What supplements should I take and when should I start taking them?
13. How often will my blood be tested and what will you be testing for? Will you call me with the results or should I call you?
14. How seriously will you (or your on-call partners) take me if I call with even the slightest symptom?
If you can add to this list, I would greatly appreciate it.
Friday, December 26, 2008
Christmas Eve in the ER
I am 8+ weeks pregnant, and we've known since the day before Thanksgiving. We weren't planning to make an announcement until after my first sono (scheduled for this Monday.) After two miscarriages, I wanted a confirmed heartbeat first. So a Christmas announcement was NOT in the works.
I've been a lot sicker this time around, not as bad as some women I know but definitely worse than my other pregnancies. I've also been utterly exhausted. I couldn't figure out why things were so much worse this time around, although it did give me a good opportunity to "rejoice in infirmities." After all, morning sickness=high hormone levels=still pregnant. Once or twice it crossed my mind that maybe it was twins...HAHAHA, right. We don't have any fraternal twins in my family (the kind that are inherited), and I wasn't taking fertility drugs, so the chances of twins would be very low and completely random.
A week ago, I started feeling a familiar ache on my left side, the beginning of an ovarian cyst. In the back of my mind I was aware that these symptoms could also mean an ectopic pregnancy, which can be very dangerous, but as long as my pain didn't get too bad I wasn't too worried.
Christmas Eve, we were at Papa Runner's parents for a wonderful evening of food, fun, and presents. We were loading up the gifts and rounding up the kids when suddenly I sneezed. It was an explosion of pain. Immediately I started panicking that my tube must have ruptured, and we headed straight for the ER, leaving the girls with G&G for the night.
We had a great doctor in the ER who reassured me that, while I did the right thing by coming in, ectopics usually show up before 8 weeks and I was probably fine, especially with my history of frequent cysts. After a shot of morphine we headed to sono. The tech was so sweet. Right away she said, "I'm not supposed to tell you anything, but it's not ectopic, definitely in the uterus." She also "didn't tell me" that there was a large cyst on the left ovary. What a relief, just as we'd expected.
Then she said, "Were you using fertility treatments?" "...What?" That's what they asked my friend M just before they dropped the T-bomb!
So I was a tiny bit prepared when the doctor came in almost immediately with the unofficial report: not ectopic, large cyst, and by the way, you're having TWINS! We were completely in shock. But, hey, we had not one but two confirmed heartbeats, so we decided to go ahead and announce. It's been fun to see people's reactions. Our families suspected something, so they weren't surprised with news of a baby. But two? WHAT?!?
The shock is starting to wear off and a little bit of panic is setting in. I know we'll be fine, but I'm glad we have six or so months to prepare.
I've been a lot sicker this time around, not as bad as some women I know but definitely worse than my other pregnancies. I've also been utterly exhausted. I couldn't figure out why things were so much worse this time around, although it did give me a good opportunity to "rejoice in infirmities." After all, morning sickness=high hormone levels=still pregnant. Once or twice it crossed my mind that maybe it was twins...HAHAHA, right. We don't have any fraternal twins in my family (the kind that are inherited), and I wasn't taking fertility drugs, so the chances of twins would be very low and completely random.
A week ago, I started feeling a familiar ache on my left side, the beginning of an ovarian cyst. In the back of my mind I was aware that these symptoms could also mean an ectopic pregnancy, which can be very dangerous, but as long as my pain didn't get too bad I wasn't too worried.
Christmas Eve, we were at Papa Runner's parents for a wonderful evening of food, fun, and presents. We were loading up the gifts and rounding up the kids when suddenly I sneezed. It was an explosion of pain. Immediately I started panicking that my tube must have ruptured, and we headed straight for the ER, leaving the girls with G&G for the night.
We had a great doctor in the ER who reassured me that, while I did the right thing by coming in, ectopics usually show up before 8 weeks and I was probably fine, especially with my history of frequent cysts. After a shot of morphine we headed to sono. The tech was so sweet. Right away she said, "I'm not supposed to tell you anything, but it's not ectopic, definitely in the uterus." She also "didn't tell me" that there was a large cyst on the left ovary. What a relief, just as we'd expected.
Then she said, "Were you using fertility treatments?" "...What?" That's what they asked my friend M just before they dropped the T-bomb!
So I was a tiny bit prepared when the doctor came in almost immediately with the unofficial report: not ectopic, large cyst, and by the way, you're having TWINS! We were completely in shock. But, hey, we had not one but two confirmed heartbeats, so we decided to go ahead and announce. It's been fun to see people's reactions. Our families suspected something, so they weren't surprised with news of a baby. But two? WHAT?!?
The shock is starting to wear off and a little bit of panic is setting in. I know we'll be fine, but I'm glad we have six or so months to prepare.
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Sunday, December 21, 2008
A Successful Christmas Program
We had our annual Sunday School Christmas Program today. Smartie is the type of child who needs lots of prepping for anything out of routine, so we had lots of discussions about what to expect. At her first Christmas program last year, she hid under the bench and cried. And at the Easter program, she refused to sing but also refused to come back down when her class was done and had to be carried off.
Her teacher told me she cried at practice yesterday, so I was really worried about how she would react. Well, she got up and sang every song with gusto, doing all the actions and smiling away! She did great for the individual-class portion, but wouldn't get back on stage for the grand finale with the whole Sunday school. But all in all it went really well.
I realized today that our current high school group has 26 students combined, which is about the same size of our current 3-year-old class (21.) When Smartie is a senior and Sweetie is a freshman, there will be almost 80 in the high school group. They won't be able to fit the whole Sunday school in for the grand finale by then. It really is a growing church.
One other thing, I forgot to update about the girls' weight checks this week. Smartie gained 2 pounds in 2 months, and Sweetie gained 1.5 pounds in 2 months. The Dr. looked over our food diary and was happy with what he saw. He wants me to continue with the whole milk-half and half mix and continue weighing weekly at home (I have a scale accurate to 1/2 ounce) but as long as I see a gaining trend he doesn't need to see them again. Yay!
Her teacher told me she cried at practice yesterday, so I was really worried about how she would react. Well, she got up and sang every song with gusto, doing all the actions and smiling away! She did great for the individual-class portion, but wouldn't get back on stage for the grand finale with the whole Sunday school. But all in all it went really well.
I realized today that our current high school group has 26 students combined, which is about the same size of our current 3-year-old class (21.) When Smartie is a senior and Sweetie is a freshman, there will be almost 80 in the high school group. They won't be able to fit the whole Sunday school in for the grand finale by then. It really is a growing church.
One other thing, I forgot to update about the girls' weight checks this week. Smartie gained 2 pounds in 2 months, and Sweetie gained 1.5 pounds in 2 months. The Dr. looked over our food diary and was happy with what he saw. He wants me to continue with the whole milk-half and half mix and continue weighing weekly at home (I have a scale accurate to 1/2 ounce) but as long as I see a gaining trend he doesn't need to see them again. Yay!
Sunday, December 14, 2008
Thursday, December 11, 2008
A Guessing Game
--Mommy, let's play a guessing game. Here's your first clue. It's all around us--up, down, front, back, middle, left, and right!
--Is it the sky?
--No. Here's your second clue. It's white with black stripes.
--Is it a zebra?
--No. Here's your third clue. It's got pink polka dots.
--Is it a zebra in a tutu?
--No. Guess again.
--Can I have another clue?
--Mo-om. :eyeroll: Steve can figure it out with just three clues.
--I give up. Just tell me.
--Christmas lights!
--Is it the sky?
--No. Here's your second clue. It's white with black stripes.
--Is it a zebra?
--No. Here's your third clue. It's got pink polka dots.
--Is it a zebra in a tutu?
--No. Guess again.
--Can I have another clue?
--Mo-om. :eyeroll: Steve can figure it out with just three clues.
--I give up. Just tell me.
--Christmas lights!
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
A Big Milestone
Smartie turned five in October. In five years, she has never, not once, been dry overnight. Without telling tales, bedwetting is a rather common affliction on my side of the family, so I didn't even bother to push it. I figured we'd be buying night-time diapers for years to come.
On Sunday night, Smartie informed me that she wasn't wearing diapers anymore.
"...Um, okay. If you feel like you need to go potty, you'll need to get up and use the toilet. Do you think you can do that all night?"
"I don't know. We'll find out!"
With much trepidation from both Papa Runner and me, we let her go to bed in panties. The result Monday morning? DRY! Tuesday? DRY! Wednesday? DRY! Needless to say, I'm thrilled (and more than a little shocked)! Let's hope she can keep it up.
On Sunday night, Smartie informed me that she wasn't wearing diapers anymore.
"...Um, okay. If you feel like you need to go potty, you'll need to get up and use the toilet. Do you think you can do that all night?"
"I don't know. We'll find out!"
With much trepidation from both Papa Runner and me, we let her go to bed in panties. The result Monday morning? DRY! Tuesday? DRY! Wednesday? DRY! Needless to say, I'm thrilled (and more than a little shocked)! Let's hope she can keep it up.
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Okay, I thought of something
Grandpa Fish is dead.
For Smartie's birthday, we got her a fish tank and a beautiful red Betta fish which she first named Jellsea and later changed to Grandpa. The poor fish was kept in Smartie's room, which is the coldest room in the house. The tank thermometer never registered above 65! Bettas are tropical fish that prefer a temp 75 or higher. We tried putting a 2-gallon heater in a 1-gallon tank, with the resulting rise in temperature being around 80.
Papa Runner and I went to Seattle for a week. When we got home, we couldn't find the fish. It was hiding underneath the decorative castle. At least three times I told Papa it was dead only to notice the gills were still moving. It stayed hidden for four days. Then one day it came out and swam around for an hour or so. Dropped dead the next day.
Does anyone know of a good small fish that thrives in cold
For Smartie's birthday, we got her a fish tank and a beautiful red Betta fish which she first named Jellsea and later changed to Grandpa. The poor fish was kept in Smartie's room, which is the coldest room in the house. The tank thermometer never registered above 65! Bettas are tropical fish that prefer a temp 75 or higher. We tried putting a 2-gallon heater in a 1-gallon tank, with the resulting rise in temperature being around 80.
Papa Runner and I went to Seattle for a week. When we got home, we couldn't find the fish. It was hiding underneath the decorative castle. At least three times I told Papa it was dead only to notice the gills were still moving. It stayed hidden for four days. Then one day it came out and swam around for an hour or so. Dropped dead the next day.
Does anyone know of a good small fish that thrives in cold
Hey, I'm online!
For almost two months, I've been unable to access my blogger account from the home computer. Today for some reason, it's letting me on! And wouldn't you know, I can't think of anything to write. I'm sure I'll come up with something soon. I just hope I can sign in again!
Friday, November 14, 2008
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Christmas Gifts
Do you like your gifts to be practical, something you plan on buying for yourself eventually anyway but can get now instead of later? Or do you like to get something crazy and fun, like a magnetic flying saucer decoration for your desk at work?
Papa Runner and I are divided. His parents usually ask us if we want to combine our Christmas money to get one bigger joint gift or get two smaller separate gifts. In the past we've gotten the joint gift, but this year we can't agree on what we'd want. One wants to get paint to redecorate our bedroom. The other says, "Paint?!? We can get paint anytime. How about a voice-activated light dimmer-switch or something cool like that?"
Papa Runner and I are divided. His parents usually ask us if we want to combine our Christmas money to get one bigger joint gift or get two smaller separate gifts. In the past we've gotten the joint gift, but this year we can't agree on what we'd want. One wants to get paint to redecorate our bedroom. The other says, "Paint?!? We can get paint anytime. How about a voice-activated light dimmer-switch or something cool like that?"
Sunday, November 2, 2008
I'm sick of politics
Dare I post this? I want to start off by saying that I think it's important to be informed, important to pray, important to vote, and important to pray some more.
Every time elections roll around, I get so frustrated. First, I hate the assumption that Christian=Republican. I have watched both parties' conventions and the debates, and I have NO INTENTION WHATSOEVER of voting for McCain. I think he'd be a bad choice to run the country. I was frustrated by his answer for every single debate question: "Obama's plan will destroy our country. He's bad, I'm good, vote for me." McCain repeatedly claimed that Obama said the exact opposite of what I'd just heard Obama say. But rarely did McCain give any details of his own plans and positions. I've seen repeatedly that his position on any issue is whatever he thinks will win him the most support. And he has the gall to claim Obama will say anything for power!
I also was highly offended by his choice of Sarah Palin. I heard this quote on the radio: He watched the Dem's convention and realized he had to pick a woman if he wanted to win. Does he really think I'm that stupid that I'll base my decision on who picked a woman? She seems like a great person, but she really isn't qualified to be President at this time.
So does that mean I'm voting for Obama? No way. I think Obama has a reasonable (not perfect) plan, and I agree with him on several issues. But I can't bring myself to vote for anyone who supports abortion.
What frustrates me most of all, though, is the panic I see in the Christian community about the prospect of the Democrats taking over. The Bible says no one can rise to power without God. So if God brings Obama to power, why should we be so upset? If God allows us to become a Socialist state, as some are claiming would happen with Obama, why should we be so upset? If our country changes so much that we are persecuted for our faith, isn't that exactly what Jesus said would happen? So why are we so upset? All of this has to happen sooner or later to bring about the end times. Shouldn't we be excited to see the Great Day of the Lord coming closer?
So be informed, pray, vote, pray some more. But please don't obsess about the results. It's all part of the Plan.
Every time elections roll around, I get so frustrated. First, I hate the assumption that Christian=Republican. I have watched both parties' conventions and the debates, and I have NO INTENTION WHATSOEVER of voting for McCain. I think he'd be a bad choice to run the country. I was frustrated by his answer for every single debate question: "Obama's plan will destroy our country. He's bad, I'm good, vote for me." McCain repeatedly claimed that Obama said the exact opposite of what I'd just heard Obama say. But rarely did McCain give any details of his own plans and positions. I've seen repeatedly that his position on any issue is whatever he thinks will win him the most support. And he has the gall to claim Obama will say anything for power!
I also was highly offended by his choice of Sarah Palin. I heard this quote on the radio: He watched the Dem's convention and realized he had to pick a woman if he wanted to win. Does he really think I'm that stupid that I'll base my decision on who picked a woman? She seems like a great person, but she really isn't qualified to be President at this time.
So does that mean I'm voting for Obama? No way. I think Obama has a reasonable (not perfect) plan, and I agree with him on several issues. But I can't bring myself to vote for anyone who supports abortion.
What frustrates me most of all, though, is the panic I see in the Christian community about the prospect of the Democrats taking over. The Bible says no one can rise to power without God. So if God brings Obama to power, why should we be so upset? If God allows us to become a Socialist state, as some are claiming would happen with Obama, why should we be so upset? If our country changes so much that we are persecuted for our faith, isn't that exactly what Jesus said would happen? So why are we so upset? All of this has to happen sooner or later to bring about the end times. Shouldn't we be excited to see the Great Day of the Lord coming closer?
So be informed, pray, vote, pray some more. But please don't obsess about the results. It's all part of the Plan.
Saturday, October 25, 2008
I've been tagged twice
It's about time I updated (from Papa Runner's work computer this time.) So here are 7 things about me:
1. I just finished my second half marathon in Columbus last weekend. It was awesome! I set a PR of 3:06:07, which is 23 minutes ahead of my last time. Can't wait to do it again!
2. I'm a sleepwalker. I used to wake up in strange places, like my closet or the garage, but I've only caught myself sleepwalking twice since we've been married. Weird sleep patterns run in my family.
3. Speaking of weird sleep patterns, I also have very vivid dreams several times a week. I always remember them in detail. Like last night I dreamed that Papa and his best friend were taking turns towing each other in a wheelchair behind a Jeep. They were both covered in mud and trying to clean it off before I caught them. Sometimes I'll realize I'm dreaming, and then I always fly.
4. Every time I go clothes shopping for myself, I come home crying. I hate shopping.
5. When Smartie was first born, I was a very "modern American" parent. But as time goes on, I find myself becoming more of an "ancient tradition" parent. I'm now an avid babywearer, do baby-led solids, and if God blesses us again I plan to nurse for at least 18 months.
6. I'm often a reverse perfectionist. If I can't do something perfectly, I'll give up and do nothing. "Better to be lazy than a failure." I'm working on accepting "good enough."
7. I took piano lessons for 8 years. I added up how much money my mom spent on it, and it was over $3000. I asked her if it was worth it. She claims it was.
I think everyone I know has been tagged already, so that's it for me.
1. I just finished my second half marathon in Columbus last weekend. It was awesome! I set a PR of 3:06:07, which is 23 minutes ahead of my last time. Can't wait to do it again!
2. I'm a sleepwalker. I used to wake up in strange places, like my closet or the garage, but I've only caught myself sleepwalking twice since we've been married. Weird sleep patterns run in my family.
3. Speaking of weird sleep patterns, I also have very vivid dreams several times a week. I always remember them in detail. Like last night I dreamed that Papa and his best friend were taking turns towing each other in a wheelchair behind a Jeep. They were both covered in mud and trying to clean it off before I caught them. Sometimes I'll realize I'm dreaming, and then I always fly.
4. Every time I go clothes shopping for myself, I come home crying. I hate shopping.
5. When Smartie was first born, I was a very "modern American" parent. But as time goes on, I find myself becoming more of an "ancient tradition" parent. I'm now an avid babywearer, do baby-led solids, and if God blesses us again I plan to nurse for at least 18 months.
6. I'm often a reverse perfectionist. If I can't do something perfectly, I'll give up and do nothing. "Better to be lazy than a failure." I'm working on accepting "good enough."
7. I took piano lessons for 8 years. I added up how much money my mom spent on it, and it was over $3000. I asked her if it was worth it. She claims it was.
I think everyone I know has been tagged already, so that's it for me.
Friday, October 17, 2008
Bad Weigh-In
I've mentioned in the past that my girls are super small. I've gone back and forth over the last five years from panic to confidence. I had decided after Smartie's four-year check that she's just meant to be small, and I wasn't going to worry about it any more. I offer healthy choices and let them eat as much as they want, trusting they'll get what they need.
Well, yesterday she had her five-year check. In the last year, she has gained less than a pound. She grew two inches, though, and now her height-to-weight ratio is so far off the chart her doctor (and I quote) "can say with confidence there are NO children in this country thinner than her. She is the thinnest child in the country!"
She's always been a picky eater, especially with carbs. She won't eat pasta, rice, or potatoes because she doesn't like the texture. (I found out last night this is very common in preemies, something to do with using their mouths before they're fully developed. Why didn't anyone mention that before?)
I don't know if she isn't eating enough or if she has a metabolic disorder that prevents her from absorbing enough. Sweetie has followed the exact same pattern of weight/height at all her checkups, too, but that kid eats like a horse! With both of them being so thin with such different eating habits, that makes me lean toward disorder.
We're supposed to add butter, oil, and/or cheese to everything she eats, give her half-and-half instead of whole milk, and come back for a weigh-in in two months. In the mean time, I'm keeping a food diary so we can have hard data to go over. If she doesn't gain enough, we'll be going to a specialist.
Well, yesterday she had her five-year check. In the last year, she has gained less than a pound. She grew two inches, though, and now her height-to-weight ratio is so far off the chart her doctor (and I quote) "can say with confidence there are NO children in this country thinner than her. She is the thinnest child in the country!"
She's always been a picky eater, especially with carbs. She won't eat pasta, rice, or potatoes because she doesn't like the texture. (I found out last night this is very common in preemies, something to do with using their mouths before they're fully developed. Why didn't anyone mention that before?)
I don't know if she isn't eating enough or if she has a metabolic disorder that prevents her from absorbing enough. Sweetie has followed the exact same pattern of weight/height at all her checkups, too, but that kid eats like a horse! With both of them being so thin with such different eating habits, that makes me lean toward disorder.
We're supposed to add butter, oil, and/or cheese to everything she eats, give her half-and-half instead of whole milk, and come back for a weigh-in in two months. In the mean time, I'm keeping a food diary so we can have hard data to go over. If she doesn't gain enough, we'll be going to a specialist.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
It's Been Awhile
I haven't posted in a while because my computer has developed a glitch between Blogger, Internet Explorer, and my filtering software. Everytime I try to log in, I get a pop-up saying the site is blocked, followed by an IE error message. I can see my page but can't access comments, post comments to other blogs, or add messages. I'm posting this in the library while Smartie has story hour and Sweetie is playing with my keys (hope she didn't set off the car alarm!)
Thanks to everyone for their kind words and prayers re: my miscarriage. It helps a lot to know people care.
Thanks to everyone for their kind words and prayers re: my miscarriage. It helps a lot to know people care.
Thursday, September 18, 2008
First Day of School
Smartie had her first day of preschool this week. This is her second year, and she is thrilled to be back. Of course, she takes after me. After coming home, she locks herself in her room for 20 minutes or so to "decompress."
Sweetie, on the other hand, is completely distraught that she can't go, too.
Friday, September 5, 2008
Going a little stir crazy...
Both girls have been sick for a week--with different illnesses! Smartie started with a head cold and Sweetie with a chest cold. And now they've swapped! And to top it off, our internet has been down for most of the week! No blogs, no outings, I feel like World War 3 could be going on and I'd have no clue, just sitting at home with my poor sick crabs.
(And if there is one more meltdown about the color of sippy cups or lost hankies, I might have a meltdown of my own! Okay, I feel better now.)
(And if there is one more meltdown about the color of sippy cups or lost hankies, I might have a meltdown of my own! Okay, I feel better now.)
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
One month ago...
One month ago tomorrow I got the confirmation I had known was coming--my baby is dead. It seems strange to be writing this, and yet I also think it's strange that our culture keeps miscarriages a secret. In the time it took for me to realize the stick had turned pink, I was already completely in love with this precious, beautiful life growing within me. It's crazy to think a grieving mother should smile and pretend everything is okay just because the child hadn't been born yet.
I was only seven weeks along, had known for about three and a half. I never got to hear a heartbeat or feel that first fluttery movement. I didn't get to find out the sex (although I have a strong instinct it was a boy) or see if he looked like me or favored his daddy. I never got to put him to my breast, hold his hand as he walked, help him learn to read, teach him to pray. And that's exactly what I'm grieving. All those moments, big and small, the hopes and dreams, have been taken from me.
I have been through this before, between the two girls, and I know I'll be okay. I just need to get some of this out of my head so I can process it a little better. That's enough for tonight, but don't be surprised if there's more later.
I was only seven weeks along, had known for about three and a half. I never got to hear a heartbeat or feel that first fluttery movement. I didn't get to find out the sex (although I have a strong instinct it was a boy) or see if he looked like me or favored his daddy. I never got to put him to my breast, hold his hand as he walked, help him learn to read, teach him to pray. And that's exactly what I'm grieving. All those moments, big and small, the hopes and dreams, have been taken from me.
I have been through this before, between the two girls, and I know I'll be okay. I just need to get some of this out of my head so I can process it a little better. That's enough for tonight, but don't be surprised if there's more later.
Monday, August 25, 2008
My ankle hurts...
I strained a ligament last week and will have to walk my next race. I'm so frustrated. This training has not gone well. I was really hoping to improve on my time from San Diego, but that isn't looking too promising right now.
Oh well, now I need to re-focus on the positives.
Oh well, now I need to re-focus on the positives.
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Sweetie remembers last night...
Sweetie --Mommy, there's a baby!
M--Oh really, what's that baby's name?
Sweetie --Baby Bock!
M--Baby Brock? He was here last night.
Sweetie --No, Baby Zi!
M--Baby Zion was here, too.
Sweetie --And Baby Aza!
M--Yes, baby Ava was here, too.
Sweetie --And Gama! OH NO!!! Where'd they go?
M--They went home. It was time for bed.
Sweetie --Sh, baby seepin'.
M--Oh really, what's that baby's name?
Sweetie --Baby Bock!
M--Baby Brock? He was here last night.
Sweetie --No, Baby Zi!
M--Baby Zion was here, too.
Sweetie --And Baby Aza!
M--Yes, baby Ava was here, too.
Sweetie --And Gama! OH NO!!! Where'd they go?
M--They went home. It was time for bed.
Sweetie --Sh, baby seepin'.
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Babywearing Class Tonight!
Class went well. I was a little nervous at first, but it was all friends and family. I could talk about babywearing for hours, and it was hard to cut it down to 30 minutes. I probably talked too fast, but it went well. Now on to advertising!
Anyone who couldn't make the class but is interested should let me know. I can do a one-on-one, or if enough people are interested I'll host another class.
Anyone who couldn't make the class but is interested should let me know. I can do a one-on-one, or if enough people are interested I'll host another class.
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Rescheduled Class
My first Bonny Blue class had to be rescheduled. I am planning to host my first class next Tuesday, August 19. There is room for a few more if anyone is interested. The class costs $5 unless you purchase a sling from me, then the class is free.
Children are welcome but not required. It's easier to learn to use the carriers with a live baby, but you can also use a practice doll if you prefer an evening out alone.
Children are welcome but not required. It's easier to learn to use the carriers with a live baby, but you can also use a practice doll if you prefer an evening out alone.
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Uh-oh, it's too quiet...
My BFAR support group recently started a photo thread called "While my Back was Turned for Five Seconds..." I thought it would be fun to do a Mr. Linky. If you have a funny story, or better yet a picture, of something your child did while your back was turned, post it to your blog and add your URL to Mr. Linky.
Here's mine:
This was almost 2 years ago, but it's what we found in one of those "uh-oh, it's too quiet" moments. You can see the globs of vaseline on her feet, hands, face, pajamas, hair, and the pile of brand new clothes next to her. We washed her hair three times between then and church the next morning with no improvement, so she went to Sunday school with greasy pigtails. They stuck straight out!
Here's mine:
This was almost 2 years ago, but it's what we found in one of those "uh-oh, it's too quiet" moments. You can see the globs of vaseline on her feet, hands, face, pajamas, hair, and the pile of brand new clothes next to her. We washed her hair three times between then and church the next morning with no improvement, so she went to Sunday school with greasy pigtails. They stuck straight out!
Sunday, July 20, 2008
Introducing...
Bonny Blue Baby Wearing! After much consideration, I've decided to move forward with my baby-wearing business. I want to focus on education and will also be making and selling ring slings. My goal is to match mothers with a comfortable, stylish, and useful carrier for their baby (whether or not they choose my sling.) I will be offering classes and one-on-one consultations.
I am so excited to offer my very first class on Thursday, July 31, at 7:00pm. Because this is my first class, I am offering a discounted price of just $5. If you decide to buy a sling, you will get a $5 discount, so the class is free with purchase. A few of you have already asked about my slings, so I hope you can make my class. If not, just give me a call and we'll set up an appointment.
Space is limited, so please make your reservation by replying to this post, emailing me at bonnybluebaby at yahoo dot com or calling me directly.
I am so excited to offer my very first class on Thursday, July 31, at 7:00pm. Because this is my first class, I am offering a discounted price of just $5. If you decide to buy a sling, you will get a $5 discount, so the class is free with purchase. A few of you have already asked about my slings, so I hope you can make my class. If not, just give me a call and we'll set up an appointment.
Space is limited, so please make your reservation by replying to this post, emailing me at bonnybluebaby at yahoo dot com or calling me directly.
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Another funny kid story...
Well, I hope you find it funny anyway, and I'm sure I'll find it funny eventually.
After getting up early for a run and having a busy morning of grocery shopping, I decided to take a short nap while Sweetie slept. Everything was going beautifully until I was awakened to the sound of a "cat" named Smartie meowing UNDER MY BED! Why!
After getting up early for a run and having a busy morning of grocery shopping, I decided to take a short nap while Sweetie slept. Everything was going beautifully until I was awakened to the sound of a "cat" named Smartie meowing UNDER MY BED! Why!
Monday, July 14, 2008
Addendum to last post, plus an opinionated tod.
I've been thinking about my last post. (Thanks for the encouragement, Amber!) About #3, I guess I don't hate all of my body. I'm actually very happy with my weight. I have no problem with my face or hair. Most of my features are just fine. It's just one problem area that makes me crazy. And it really is a problem, causing physical pain as well as mental/emotional distress. There's not much I can do about it now, though, so I need to learn to let it go.
On to my toddler and her blossoming opinion:
I always make a suggestion for breakfast. Smartie usually agrees and occasionally suggests something else. Until today, Sweetie just ate whatever I put in front of her without fuss. Not anymore!
Me: Do you girls want a bagle today?
Smartie : Ok.
Sweetie : NNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
Me: Um, ok, what do you want?
Sweetie : A buh-buh-buh!
Me: ....Yeah, no idea. Let's have bagles.
Sweetie : NNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me: Ok, how about cereal?
Sweetie : NNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me: Ok, how about a breakfast bar?
Sweetie : YYYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A BUH-BUH-BUH!!!!!!!!!!!
Then I got out the toaster to make Smartie's bagle, and she really lost it! Calm down, kid! I'll get your breakfast bar!8(
On to my toddler and her blossoming opinion:
I always make a suggestion for breakfast. Smartie usually agrees and occasionally suggests something else. Until today, Sweetie just ate whatever I put in front of her without fuss. Not anymore!
Me: Do you girls want a bagle today?
Smartie : Ok.
Sweetie : NNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
Me: Um, ok, what do you want?
Sweetie : A buh-buh-buh!
Me: ....Yeah, no idea. Let's have bagles.
Sweetie : NNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me: Ok, how about cereal?
Sweetie : NNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me: Ok, how about a breakfast bar?
Sweetie : YYYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A BUH-BUH-BUH!!!!!!!!!!!
Then I got out the toaster to make Smartie's bagle, and she really lost it! Calm down, kid! I'll get your breakfast bar!8(
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Reality Check
Having been challenged by Kirsten's recent blog, I've decided to post my own reality check.
1. Smartie and I have a lot of conflict, most of it stemming from being so similar.
2. Sweetie and I have a lot of conflict, most of it stemming from being so different.
3. Despite losing a lot of weight in the last few months, I still hate my body. In fact, I cried about it (again!) just the other day.
4. I have a very painful case of endometriosis. It's more under control now than it has been for a long time, but at its worst I've been in so much pain I can barely walk for 14 days/month. Not a great situation for raising children.
1. Smartie and I have a lot of conflict, most of it stemming from being so similar.
2. Sweetie and I have a lot of conflict, most of it stemming from being so different.
3. Despite losing a lot of weight in the last few months, I still hate my body. In fact, I cried about it (again!) just the other day.
4. I have a very painful case of endometriosis. It's more under control now than it has been for a long time, but at its worst I've been in so much pain I can barely walk for 14 days/month. Not a great situation for raising children.
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Friday, July 4, 2008
Giving Dinner
Papa Runner & I, along with our cousins, are giving dinner on Sunday. We have the food covered, but we're in need of table waitresses. I know a lot of my local readers have small children, and I certainly don't expect you to try to juggle kids and lunch duty. But if anyone is willing to help, check back in the kitchen on Sunday. Thanks!
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Monday, June 30, 2008
Time Goes So Fast
Six years ago today, Papa Runner and I were married.
The time has flown by. It seems like just yesterday.
Our kids are growing fast, too. As I've said recently, Sweetie flipped a switch when she turned 18 months and is now acting more like a two-year-old. Her favorite word is no. But it's not just "NO!" No, it's more like this:
And Smartie has suddenly developed an attitude that's more like a teenager. Today she dressed up in the princess dress I made three years ago.
"Mom, do you know who made this dress?"
"Yes, I made it."
"Uh, no? *eye roll* It was the birds and mice?"
Love how the statements are questions, along with the "you're so dumb" look.
The time has flown by. It seems like just yesterday.
Our kids are growing fast, too. As I've said recently, Sweetie flipped a switch when she turned 18 months and is now acting more like a two-year-old. Her favorite word is no. But it's not just "NO!" No, it's more like this:
And Smartie has suddenly developed an attitude that's more like a teenager. Today she dressed up in the princess dress I made three years ago.
"Mom, do you know who made this dress?"
"Yes, I made it."
"Uh, no? *eye roll* It was the birds and mice?"
Love how the statements are questions, along with the "you're so dumb" look.
Saturday, June 28, 2008
Back from Chicago
I'm interested in starting some sort of business in babywearing. I just got back from a fantastic conference in Chicago where I got to take all kinds of classes and try all kinds of carriers. I know that I want to teach, either groups or 1-on-1 (or both). I'm deciding whether to make my own carriers to sell, sell established brands, or just point people to online businesses.
My "How to Teach" class was particularly fascinating. We talked about how a lot of mothers don't want to try babywearing because they've used an inferior brand (Bjorn or Snugglie) or perhaps had a decent carrier but no proper instruction. Their babies were unhappy, they were uncomfortable, and BW was obviously not for them. If they had quality carriers and proper instruction, they and their babies could get all the wonderful benefits this offers. And the benefits are many and amazing.
If you see me out and about in the next few weeks, I'll probably be wearing Sweetie. I may even wear Smartie at times (really, with a good carrier it is completely comfortable to carry an older child, at least for a while). And if neither of them are in the mood to be worn, I may have to wear my weighted doll just for the practice! I'll have Papa Runner take some pics of the various carriers and holds I've learned to share with you.
My "How to Teach" class was particularly fascinating. We talked about how a lot of mothers don't want to try babywearing because they've used an inferior brand (Bjorn or Snugglie) or perhaps had a decent carrier but no proper instruction. Their babies were unhappy, they were uncomfortable, and BW was obviously not for them. If they had quality carriers and proper instruction, they and their babies could get all the wonderful benefits this offers. And the benefits are many and amazing.
If you see me out and about in the next few weeks, I'll probably be wearing Sweetie. I may even wear Smartie at times (really, with a good carrier it is completely comfortable to carry an older child, at least for a while). And if neither of them are in the mood to be worn, I may have to wear my weighted doll just for the practice! I'll have Papa Runner take some pics of the various carriers and holds I've learned to share with you.
Friday, June 20, 2008
No Tylenol for You!
Sweetie is NEVER GETTING TYLENOL AGAIN at least in infant form, and probably not in childrens liquid either! She was running a fever for a couple days. Now, I don't treat fevers up to 102 because I think it's a healthy part of the immune system. But once it goes over 102, I feel like it's time to treat.
On Wednesday night, it hit 103 right at 8:00. I gave her a dose of infant Tylenol and put her to bed. She slept until 9:30. I then rocked her in the computer chair while I messed around. She finally started to fall asleep just before midnight. Now, I figured it was about time for another dose before I laid her down. Big mistake!
She was back up at 12:30 yelling, "Mama, w'are you? W'are you!" I got back up with her and headed to the basement. She proceeded to spend the next hour running back and forth on the couch. When she finally got bored with that, she spent another hour running in circles around the ottoman. And when she finally got all that energy out, she spent another hour sitting next to me poking me and saying, "Eyes! Ears! Belly!"
She finally started to relax enough to be put to bed at 3:30. I am positive she had some kind of hyper reaction to the medicine. Smartie had a similar reaction to Dimetap at about the same age. So NEVER AGAIN! She'll just have to make do with Motrin until she's big enough to try chewables or swallowables.
On Wednesday night, it hit 103 right at 8:00. I gave her a dose of infant Tylenol and put her to bed. She slept until 9:30. I then rocked her in the computer chair while I messed around. She finally started to fall asleep just before midnight. Now, I figured it was about time for another dose before I laid her down. Big mistake!
She was back up at 12:30 yelling, "Mama, w'are you? W'are you!" I got back up with her and headed to the basement. She proceeded to spend the next hour running back and forth on the couch. When she finally got bored with that, she spent another hour running in circles around the ottoman. And when she finally got all that energy out, she spent another hour sitting next to me poking me and saying, "Eyes! Ears! Belly!"
She finally started to relax enough to be put to bed at 3:30. I am positive she had some kind of hyper reaction to the medicine. Smartie had a similar reaction to Dimetap at about the same age. So NEVER AGAIN! She'll just have to make do with Motrin until she's big enough to try chewables or swallowables.
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Finger update
We had our LAST appointment with Dr. M today! Sweetie has made lots of progress in using her injured finger. Dr. M thinks it has been numb but the feeling is coming back. So he doesn't need to see us again unless something drastic happens. We're all hopeful the scar band will smoothe out, but if it doesn't we can go back to Dr. M in a few years for a small snip--so different from the surgery we once feared!
Sunday, June 15, 2008
How Inspiring!
This is Dick and Ricky Hoyt, a father and son team. A few months after Dick had a heart attack, his son asked if they could compete together in a marathon. Dick said yes. After completing a few marathons together, Ricky asked about triathlons. His father said yes. And finally they moved on to an Ironman. Now the Ironman is a 2.4 mile ocean swim followed by a 112 mile bike ride and ending with a 26.2 mile run--the top endurance races of three events combined! Again, when Ricky asked Dick said yes. Here is their dramatic finish: warning, you may need tissues!
Saturday, June 14, 2008
My Wonderful Husband
We took Daddy to the Chiefs game for Father's Day. We all had a wonderful time!
Thursday, June 12, 2008
The Big-Girl Bed Experiment
Okay, who flipped the switch? Sweetie turned 18 months on Sunday and overnight became a tantrum thrower. Until now, she has always been a fantastic sleeper and napper. I say it's bedtime, and she claps and runs to her room. And now, she screams and runs to Smartie's room. She desperately wants to sleep in Smartie's bed, not the crib.
Yesterday at nap time, I took the crib matress out and let her sleep on the floor. She was so excited, she grabbed her Boo and Ivan and went right to sleep. An hour later she fell off the matress, and that was the end of nap time two hours early. Grr.
Last night at bed time, she completely freaked out about the matress on the floor and banged on the door until I put it back. Then she screamed for another twenty minutes because she didn't want to be in her crib, either. She wants to sleep with her Sissy! Don't you get it, Mom?!? She actually said, "I ni-night SISSY!"
Yesterday at nap time, I took the crib matress out and let her sleep on the floor. She was so excited, she grabbed her Boo and Ivan and went right to sleep. An hour later she fell off the matress, and that was the end of nap time two hours early. Grr.
Last night at bed time, she completely freaked out about the matress on the floor and banged on the door until I put it back. Then she screamed for another twenty minutes because she didn't want to be in her crib, either. She wants to sleep with her Sissy! Don't you get it, Mom?!? She actually said, "I ni-night SISSY!"
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
We Did It!
The Stats
Papa Runner: 2:18:33
Mama Runner: 3:20:58
# of starters: 22,000+
# of finishers: 16,373 for full, 808 for TNT-only half
# of TNT participants: ~3400
Total $ raised: $12.5 million
Total raised by us: $9,701.44
The Story
We had a wonderful flight to San Diego, where we stayed in a gorgeous hotel. We got to meet some great people with interesting stories including:
Barb, whose son (now 20) was diagnosed with leukemia at age 5 and cured with a bone marrow transplant. This was Barb's 29th event for TNT. She has raised over $70,000 and counting.
The San Antonio Mothers of Multiples team, eight women, each with a set of twins or triplets between the ages of two and five, who together raised $50,000.
Howard, a 50-year-old survivor who was walking his first marathon.
Almost forgot the 84-year-old lady who has run a marathon each of the last ten years! And the blind power-walker and her guide who fundraised together.
We both struggled a bit, but we finished and learned a lot. We're hooked: we're planning our next race this fall and probably another fundraiser in the spring.
Papa Runner: 2:18:33
Mama Runner: 3:20:58
# of starters: 22,000+
# of finishers: 16,373 for full, 808 for TNT-only half
# of TNT participants: ~3400
Total $ raised: $12.5 million
Total raised by us: $9,701.44
The Story
We had a wonderful flight to San Diego, where we stayed in a gorgeous hotel. We got to meet some great people with interesting stories including:
Barb, whose son (now 20) was diagnosed with leukemia at age 5 and cured with a bone marrow transplant. This was Barb's 29th event for TNT. She has raised over $70,000 and counting.
The San Antonio Mothers of Multiples team, eight women, each with a set of twins or triplets between the ages of two and five, who together raised $50,000.
Howard, a 50-year-old survivor who was walking his first marathon.
Almost forgot the 84-year-old lady who has run a marathon each of the last ten years! And the blind power-walker and her guide who fundraised together.
We both struggled a bit, but we finished and learned a lot. We're hooked: we're planning our next race this fall and probably another fundraiser in the spring.
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Leaving On a Jet Plane
We head to Chicago tonight and fly out for San Diego tomorrow morning! :) Tomorrow night, we'll have dinner with a friend of mine. I've never met her in person, but she's part of my online support group. It should be fun!
Friday or Saturday, we'll go to the Expo to check out all the cool running gear and pick up our race packets. Then Sunday is race day--starting time is 6:30, although we're pretty far back in the pack and probably won't cross the starting line until closer to 7:00. Live results can be viewed here if you're interested, although in Illinois it'll be church time. I don't know if I'll be able to update while there, but as soon as I get home I'll let you know all the details.
Thanks for all the prayers this week and weekend--it means a lot to both of us.
Friday or Saturday, we'll go to the Expo to check out all the cool running gear and pick up our race packets. Then Sunday is race day--starting time is 6:30, although we're pretty far back in the pack and probably won't cross the starting line until closer to 7:00. Live results can be viewed here if you're interested, although in Illinois it'll be church time. I don't know if I'll be able to update while there, but as soon as I get home I'll let you know all the details.
Thanks for all the prayers this week and weekend--it means a lot to both of us.
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Prayer warriors needed! UPDATE
Okay, I know this isn't a huge tragedy and there are many better causes, but a whispered prayer or two would be appreciated. I have (I think) a very painful cyst on my left ovary. It's been so bad the last few days that I can barely walk let alone run. And the race is this Sunday! I hate to think of missing it, especially after 16 weeks of training. So I'll be praying that this thing shrinks, pops, or at least goes dormant within the next few days so I can be back to normal by the weekend. Thanks!
ETA: A few hours after I posted this, the cyst popped. Not pleasant, but within an hour I was feeling so much better. Today I'm just a little sore and achy, but planning to get my run in tonight (or at least a walk). Thanks so much--prayers really do work wonders!
ETA: A few hours after I posted this, the cyst popped. Not pleasant, but within an hour I was feeling so much better. Today I'm just a little sore and achy, but planning to get my run in tonight (or at least a walk). Thanks so much--prayers really do work wonders!
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Milestones
I've been running for fifteen weeks. As of yesterday, I have lost thirteen pounds and six inches. Tomorrow, I will reach 200 miles. In twelve days, I will run my race. It's hard to believe sometimes.
Update on I Love You: Last night as we put Sweetie to bed, Papa Runner said, "Ni-night, Sweetie, I love you." She gave him a big smile and said, "La-lu!"
Seeing the look on my face, my sweet husband said, "Sweetie, do you love Mama?"
"NOOOOOOOO!"
Then I took her. "Ni-night, Sweetie, I love you." *blank stare* "I love you!" *blank stare* "I love you, Sweetie!"
She busted out the biggest grin you've ever seen and shouted, "LA-LU!" Such a tease!
Update on I Love You: Last night as we put Sweetie to bed, Papa Runner said, "Ni-night, Sweetie, I love you." She gave him a big smile and said, "La-lu!"
Seeing the look on my face, my sweet husband said, "Sweetie, do you love Mama?"
"NOOOOOOOO!"
Then I took her. "Ni-night, Sweetie, I love you." *blank stare* "I love you!" *blank stare* "I love you, Sweetie!"
She busted out the biggest grin you've ever seen and shouted, "LA-LU!" Such a tease!
Sunday, May 18, 2008
The Day All Mothers Long For...
...wasn't today. I've been trying to teach Sweetie to say, "I love you," for a month now. Today we were in the baby room at church. Sweetie got so excited as she saw 4-5 babies, pointing and telling me, "It's a baby, there's a baby!" Then she turned to me and said, "I la babies!"
"You love babies?" I asked.
"Uh-huh, I la babies!" she repeated.
"Sweetie , I love you. Do you love Mama?"
"It's a baby!"
"You love babies?" I asked.
"Uh-huh, I la babies!" she repeated.
"Sweetie , I love you. Do you love Mama?"
"It's a baby!"
Monday, May 12, 2008
She's Talking Up a Storm
I admit, I'm a language geek. So hearing my children learn to talk has been very fascinating to me. Here are a couple cute things Sweetie has been saying lately.
When Sweetie tries to take Smartie's toy, Smartie says, "No-no, Sweetie , it's mine." Now when Smartie tries to take Sweetie's toy, Sweetie says, "No-no, Sweetie , it's mine." Makes me laugh every time.
The other day, we were reading a Dora the Explorer book. I was asking Sweetie where the different characters were. She correctly found Isa, Benny, and Boots. But when I asked her where Tico was, she patted her stomach and said, "Belly-belly!" I said, "Tico is in your belly?" And she lifted her shirt, tickled herself, and said, "Tico-tico-tico!" (Tickle-tickle-tickle!)
When Sweetie tries to take Smartie's toy, Smartie says, "No-no, Sweetie , it's mine." Now when Smartie tries to take Sweetie's toy, Sweetie says, "No-no, Sweetie , it's mine." Makes me laugh every time.
The other day, we were reading a Dora the Explorer book. I was asking Sweetie where the different characters were. She correctly found Isa, Benny, and Boots. But when I asked her where Tico was, she patted her stomach and said, "Belly-belly!" I said, "Tico is in your belly?" And she lifted her shirt, tickled herself, and said, "Tico-tico-tico!" (Tickle-tickle-tickle!)
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Saturday, May 3, 2008
The Lake Run
Since most of our teammates are running their big race in Indy today, Papa Runner and I decided to do our training at the 27th Annual Lake Run. They have three events, a non-competitive 3 mile walk, a 7K run, and a 12K (7.44 mile) run around Lake Bloomington. We signed up for the 12K.
Papa's time was 1:13:44. Mine was 1:31:30. I finished second to last! WOOHOO! In fact, I WAS last for most of the way, but I passed a guy in his sixties (I guess) at mile 6.
One of the things I love about endurance running is that you don't have to be an elite competitor to participate. The only time you need to worry about is your own, and you only need to compete with yourself and your goals. The goals I reached today:
1. Finish.
2. Maintain a steady pace. (I was pretty consistent ~12:15/mile the whole way.)
So yay for us! Just four weeks until our Race Day in San Diego.
ETA: I just checked the official results, and there was someone else behind me. So I was 310 out of 312. And the gentleman I passed was 73! :)
Papa's time was 1:13:44. Mine was 1:31:30. I finished second to last! WOOHOO! In fact, I WAS last for most of the way, but I passed a guy in his sixties (I guess) at mile 6.
One of the things I love about endurance running is that you don't have to be an elite competitor to participate. The only time you need to worry about is your own, and you only need to compete with yourself and your goals. The goals I reached today:
1. Finish.
2. Maintain a steady pace. (I was pretty consistent ~12:15/mile the whole way.)
So yay for us! Just four weeks until our Race Day in San Diego.
ETA: I just checked the official results, and there was someone else behind me. So I was 310 out of 312. And the gentleman I passed was 73! :)
Friday, May 2, 2008
Look-alikes
Some people think my sister and I look alike.
The most recent to think so is Sweetie, whose favorite game at the moment is to call me Aunt A. When I say, "I'm not Aunt A!" she calls me "Bapa" (grandpa.) So I must look like my dad, too.
I wonder if people will say the same thing about my girls some day. Here they are at 16 months. Do you think they look alike?
The most recent to think so is Sweetie, whose favorite game at the moment is to call me Aunt A. When I say, "I'm not Aunt A!" she calls me "Bapa" (grandpa.) So I must look like my dad, too.
I wonder if people will say the same thing about my girls some day. Here they are at 16 months. Do you think they look alike?
Sunday, April 27, 2008
Running Tips 4
Exercise 1
Exercise 2
Exercise 3
Exercise 4
Toe Curls--toss a wash cloth onto the floor. Use your toes to pull it toward you and bunch it up. This strengthens your foot muscles.
We did a 10-miler yesterday and lived to tell about it! Three more miles on top of that? No problem! Five more weeks to race day.
Exercise 2
Exercise 3
Exercise 4
Toe Curls--toss a wash cloth onto the floor. Use your toes to pull it toward you and bunch it up. This strengthens your foot muscles.
We did a 10-miler yesterday and lived to tell about it! Three more miles on top of that? No problem! Five more weeks to race day.
Friday, April 25, 2008
Expelled
Papa Runner & I saw the movie Expelled: No Intelligence Allowed tonight. It was a bit quirky but very good in the presentation of facts. Definitely worth seeing.
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Heaven in the Eyes of Smartie
Smartie--Mommy, someday Jesus is going to come get us and take us to Heaven.
Me--That's right. What do you think Heaven will be like?
Smartie--There will be lots of yummy food there. Like popcorn! I'll get to eat popcorn all the time!
Me--Sounds yummy.
Smartie--And I'll get to play with stickers, and there will be a big tree house in the back yard, and it'll be SO COOL!
Me--That sounds like fun!
Smartie--And the best part is we won't have to pretend, because it's all REAL!
Oh, to have a child's faith!
And now, an update on the ear situation. We saw Dr. R today, and you'll never guess what we found out. Her tube is in place and completely fine! A month ago, it appeared (to me) to be protruding and sideways, but apparently this type of tube is flexible and can move a bit without causing any harm. I don't know why the Prompt Care doctor didn't realize it was still in place, and I wonder if she even really had an ear infection last week. So no surgery! YAY!
Me--That's right. What do you think Heaven will be like?
Smartie--There will be lots of yummy food there. Like popcorn! I'll get to eat popcorn all the time!
Me--Sounds yummy.
Smartie--And I'll get to play with stickers, and there will be a big tree house in the back yard, and it'll be SO COOL!
Me--That sounds like fun!
Smartie--And the best part is we won't have to pretend, because it's all REAL!
Oh, to have a child's faith!
And now, an update on the ear situation. We saw Dr. R today, and you'll never guess what we found out. Her tube is in place and completely fine! A month ago, it appeared (to me) to be protruding and sideways, but apparently this type of tube is flexible and can move a bit without causing any harm. I don't know why the Prompt Care doctor didn't realize it was still in place, and I wonder if she even really had an ear infection last week. So no surgery! YAY!
Sunday, April 20, 2008
Running Tips 3
Exercise 1
Exercise 2
Exercise 3
While seated, lift your leg straight out and flex your ankle, pointing your toes back toward you. Hold for as long as you can, then switch legs. This strenghtens the muscles that stabilize your knee.
Six more weeks until race day!
Exercise 2
Exercise 3
While seated, lift your leg straight out and flex your ankle, pointing your toes back toward you. Hold for as long as you can, then switch legs. This strenghtens the muscles that stabilize your knee.
Six more weeks until race day!
Monday, April 14, 2008
Some interesting stats
Well, interesting to me, anyway.
I average around 35 visitors per day. Several stay for more than an hour. I've only been found through Google twice.
Some of the visitors to my blog include people from Middletown, NY; Mt Laurel, NJ; Greenville, SC; Dixon, IL; Gainsville, FL; Canton, MI; Hartford, CT; Towanda, PA; Rochester, MN; Washington, DC; Dehra Dun Uttaranchal, India; Dallas, TX; Sulpher, OK; Chicago, IL; Glenview, IL; Rantoul, IL; Hollywood, FL; Owosso, MI; Schaumberg, IL; and Zurich, Switzerland.
I know or suspect who a few of these are, but most of them I haven't the slightest idea who they could be. Some of them are one-time visitors, some visit several times a day. And yet I hardly ever get comments! So, take a moment to introduce yourself. I'd love to find out how you found my blog.
I average around 35 visitors per day. Several stay for more than an hour. I've only been found through Google twice.
Some of the visitors to my blog include people from Middletown, NY; Mt Laurel, NJ; Greenville, SC; Dixon, IL; Gainsville, FL; Canton, MI; Hartford, CT; Towanda, PA; Rochester, MN; Washington, DC; Dehra Dun Uttaranchal, India; Dallas, TX; Sulpher, OK; Chicago, IL; Glenview, IL; Rantoul, IL; Hollywood, FL; Owosso, MI; Schaumberg, IL; and Zurich, Switzerland.
I know or suspect who a few of these are, but most of them I haven't the slightest idea who they could be. Some of them are one-time visitors, some visit several times a day. And yet I hardly ever get comments! So, take a moment to introduce yourself. I'd love to find out how you found my blog.
Sunday, April 13, 2008
Running Tips 2
Exercise one
Exercise two:
While seated, rest one ankle on the other knee and "write" the alphabet with your foot. Repeat with other foot. This strengthens the calf which in turn stabilizes the ankle and knee.
Exercise two:
While seated, rest one ankle on the other knee and "write" the alphabet with your foot. Repeat with other foot. This strengthens the calf which in turn stabilizes the ankle and knee.
Saturday, April 12, 2008
First Potty Learning Attempt
Sweetie has been obsessed with pretending to go potty for the last two weeks. She tells me she has to go, which usually means she has just gone, and she sits on her potty chair for a few minutes before getting a clean diaper. After walking into the bathroom the other day and finding this:
I thought it might be time to make a training attempt. Sweetie spent Friday morning naked in the bathroom with her cup-cup, pretzels, a stack of books, and the potty chair. After three pees on the floor, I caught her starting to poop. I put her on the chair, and she did her business. Success, I thought. Then she stood up and saw what she had made. She completely freaked out, right away asking for her diaper. I don't intend to push her, so it's back to diapers for us.
Then tonight as we were getting ready for bath, she told me she had to go potty. She sat for 5 minutes and all attempts to get her into the tub were met with an emphatic no. And then...she made tinkles! We may get this done yet!
I thought it might be time to make a training attempt. Sweetie spent Friday morning naked in the bathroom with her cup-cup, pretzels, a stack of books, and the potty chair. After three pees on the floor, I caught her starting to poop. I put her on the chair, and she did her business. Success, I thought. Then she stood up and saw what she had made. She completely freaked out, right away asking for her diaper. I don't intend to push her, so it's back to diapers for us.
Then tonight as we were getting ready for bath, she told me she had to go potty. She sat for 5 minutes and all attempts to get her into the tub were met with an emphatic no. And then...she made tinkles! We may get this done yet!
Friday, April 11, 2008
So frustrated!
Smartie has ear infection #13! She had her second set of ear tubes, heavy-duty ones designed to last 2-4 years, in December. At the end of February, she fell and hit her right ear hard. The tube popped right out. Her surgeon acted like it wasn't a big deal, didn't even want to see her. Now that ear is infected. And it's Friday afternoon with no chance of getting in with him. I took her to Prompt Care for another round of antibiotics. Monday morning, I'm DEMANDING to be seen by the surgeon. Looks like we may be facing a third surgery. GRR.
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
Sunday, April 6, 2008
Running Tips
Papa Runner & I have completed 9 weeks of training. So many people have encouraged us with this. But the most common comment is, "I could never do that!" You may not believe us, but we would have said the same thing before this. Papa & I have both had knee injuries that required physical therapy. And yet here we are!
We have a fantastic coach with 20 years' experience. He's had about every injury you could have and is still running. He's given us a whole list of "no sweat" exercises that strengthen the legs. These are the kind you could do anywhere at any time. I've decided to share them with you over the next few weeks. Who knows, maybe you'll be joining us on the trail someday soon!
Exercise 1:
Stand on one foot. No, really! Stand unsupported on one foot for as long as you can, then switch to the other. All the dynamic muscles of the foot and ankle get strengthened as you use them to stabalize yourself. You can do this exercise as you wait in line, while doing the dishes, even while fellowshipping at church! In fact, you'll probably see me doing this quite often at church. When just standing gets too easy, you can bounce a ball or close your eyes to make it more difficult.
Happy trails!
We have a fantastic coach with 20 years' experience. He's had about every injury you could have and is still running. He's given us a whole list of "no sweat" exercises that strengthen the legs. These are the kind you could do anywhere at any time. I've decided to share them with you over the next few weeks. Who knows, maybe you'll be joining us on the trail someday soon!
Exercise 1:
Stand on one foot. No, really! Stand unsupported on one foot for as long as you can, then switch to the other. All the dynamic muscles of the foot and ankle get strengthened as you use them to stabalize yourself. You can do this exercise as you wait in line, while doing the dishes, even while fellowshipping at church! In fact, you'll probably see me doing this quite often at church. When just standing gets too easy, you can bounce a ball or close your eyes to make it more difficult.
Happy trails!
Thursday, April 3, 2008
Hot Chocolate
Some of you may recall that Smartie liked playing in the snow because she got hot chocolate afterward. Yesterday, we played outside for a while in the nice spring weather. This is the conversation we had on coming in:
Smartie : Mommy, I'm really cold. Can I have some hot chocolate?
M: No, I'm not making hot chocolate today. But I'll get a snack ready.
(a few minutes go by)
Smartie : Mommy, I'm still really cold. Could I please have some hot chocolate?
M: No, I just gave you a snack. Finish your crackers.
(a few more minutes go by)
Smartie : *gasp* Hey, Mommy, I see something!
M: What? Where?
Smartie : It's in the cupboard!
M: Really, what is it?
Smartie : Well, it's hot, and it's brown, and it's called HOT CHOCOLATE!!!
When I finally stopped laughing and picked myself up off the floor, I made a batch of hot chocolate. You gotta admire her persistence and creativity.
Smartie : Mommy, I'm really cold. Can I have some hot chocolate?
M: No, I'm not making hot chocolate today. But I'll get a snack ready.
(a few minutes go by)
Smartie : Mommy, I'm still really cold. Could I please have some hot chocolate?
M: No, I just gave you a snack. Finish your crackers.
(a few more minutes go by)
Smartie : *gasp* Hey, Mommy, I see something!
M: What? Where?
Smartie : It's in the cupboard!
M: Really, what is it?
Smartie : Well, it's hot, and it's brown, and it's called HOT CHOCOLATE!!!
When I finally stopped laughing and picked myself up off the floor, I made a batch of hot chocolate. You gotta admire her persistence and creativity.
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
Good News!
We have reached our minimum fundraising goal! As you know, Papa Runner & I have been training for a half marathon with Leukemia and Lymphoma Society's Team In Training. In order to run the San Diego Rock N Roll Marathon, we had to commit to raise $3900 each. As of today, we have $8137.44! Of course, there is no maximum goal. The cause of cancer research will always go on. We can accept donations into our account at our website, by mail, or in person until June 30.
Training is going really well, too. I didn't expect to enjoy it as much as I do. You just feel better after a run. We're already talking about doing a full marathon (not with TNT) in the fall, and fundraising for another next spring!
In other news, Sweetie did the cutest thing yesterday! At bedtime, I read her a Bible story, then told her it's time to pray. She closed her eyes, folded her hands, and said, "*babble-babble-babble* MMMMMMMMM-men!" It's amazing how fast they learn. It really is never too early to start good habits of prayer and reading. And memorization, too. (Pardon me while I brag on my kids) For the last month or so, Smartie has been memorizing Psalm 121. She can now say 5 of the 8 verses. She really enjoys it, especially when we make up hand motions to help her remember.
Training is going really well, too. I didn't expect to enjoy it as much as I do. You just feel better after a run. We're already talking about doing a full marathon (not with TNT) in the fall, and fundraising for another next spring!
In other news, Sweetie did the cutest thing yesterday! At bedtime, I read her a Bible story, then told her it's time to pray. She closed her eyes, folded her hands, and said, "*babble-babble-babble* MMMMMMMMM-men!" It's amazing how fast they learn. It really is never too early to start good habits of prayer and reading. And memorization, too. (Pardon me while I brag on my kids) For the last month or so, Smartie has been memorizing Psalm 121. She can now say 5 of the 8 verses. She really enjoys it, especially when we make up hand motions to help her remember.
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
The Honeymoon (Honey15moons?) is Over
Well, after 15 months, the other shoe has dropped. Sweetie has joined her sister in giving me gray hair. It's been so interesting--the two of them are SO different.
Smartie is strong-willed, so we have had plenty of battles of will (the honeymoon was over with her at 10 days!) But she's an introvert like me. We read a book or snuggle for a few minutes, then she goes to play by herself.
Sweetie is much more compliant, which is why we've had such an easy time for the first 15 months. Early on her people needs weren't a problem. I could just sling her on my back and go about my business. But her extrovert personality is really starting to clash with mine. She's not content just to be held anymore, she wants to be on my lap shredding my newspaper, banging on my keyboard, and constantly interacting. I love playing with her, but I need a break every so often.
I can't pass her off on her sister because Smartie's an introvert too. I'm trying to teach Smartie to say, "Mom, I need some space, can you come get Sweetie," instead of hitting. I really don't know quite what to do with Sweetie. She wants to DO things and GO places. She stood by the coat closet one day yelling, "Go ga-bye." For an HOUR! I thought the strong-willed one would be harder, but I'm afraid I can't keep up with Sweetie. She doesn't just need to be active, she needs someone to be active with her. So if any of you have a kid like Sweetie, give me a call. We'd love to have a playdate.
Smartie is strong-willed, so we have had plenty of battles of will (the honeymoon was over with her at 10 days!) But she's an introvert like me. We read a book or snuggle for a few minutes, then she goes to play by herself.
Sweetie is much more compliant, which is why we've had such an easy time for the first 15 months. Early on her people needs weren't a problem. I could just sling her on my back and go about my business. But her extrovert personality is really starting to clash with mine. She's not content just to be held anymore, she wants to be on my lap shredding my newspaper, banging on my keyboard, and constantly interacting. I love playing with her, but I need a break every so often.
I can't pass her off on her sister because Smartie's an introvert too. I'm trying to teach Smartie to say, "Mom, I need some space, can you come get Sweetie," instead of hitting. I really don't know quite what to do with Sweetie. She wants to DO things and GO places. She stood by the coat closet one day yelling, "Go ga-bye." For an HOUR! I thought the strong-willed one would be harder, but I'm afraid I can't keep up with Sweetie. She doesn't just need to be active, she needs someone to be active with her. So if any of you have a kid like Sweetie, give me a call. We'd love to have a playdate.
Friday, March 21, 2008
Potty Obsession
Sweetie has become obsessed with the potty in recent days. She's been watching Smartie, I think, and several times I have caught her with her pants off (diaper on, she can't unbotton her shirt with the between-leg snaps yet) trying to climb onto the toilet. We got out the potty chair and let her pretend to go. No actual tinkles, but she gets such a kick out of trying. I'm tempted to give the one-day potty training a try. This may be a window of opportunity. But I don't know if she's really ready for it, and I don't want to push her too soon. She's only 15 months, after all. Maybe we'll try for a day and see how it goes.
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Welcome Baby!
My sister, her DH and DD welcomed a little boy this evening. He made his entrance at 6:22 weighing in at 8 pounds 2 ounces and 19.75 inches. Mom and baby are doing well after a successful VBAC. Can't wait to meet him!
Monday, March 17, 2008
LC duties
Today I had the privilege of sharing some of my breast feeding knowledge with a friend. As most of you probably know, I had surgery a few years ago that damaged my milk glands. I did extensive research and went to a lot of work to nurse Sweetie. (I also had some problems with Smartie before the surgery.) If anyone ever has nursing issues and would like some advice from an experienced mama, just give me a call. I know a lot about correct latch, ways to supplement, and how to increase supply.
Monday, March 10, 2008
TNT Update
Getting the mail has become the headline event at our house lately. Rarely does a day go by that we don't find a little envelope with a donation. Every dollar helps, and we are so grateful.
We have been surprised on several occasions to see a return label from someone we don't know well, or from another young family with lots of obligations. We'll think maybe they sent $20, only to find a check for $100, $200, even $500! We've begun to realize it's not about how well they know us but how much they've been touched by Leukemia and other blood cancers that drives the donation. (I share this not to make anyone feel bad for not giving more. We really are just as grateful for the $20 donations as for the $500 one.)
Our funniest donation was from one of our Crown students who apparently gave us their weekly tithe right down to the cent! We get a chuckle every time we see that 24 cents on the end of our balance.
With today's mail, we were thrilled to find that Papa Runner needs just $30.76 to reach his minimum goal! (The official minimum is $3900, we rounded up to $4000 for our letters and websites.) So if any of you have been meaning to send us something and just haven't gotten to it, you can go to Papa's webpage and finish out his goal. If he's reached the $3900 mark, you can click the link to Mama's webpage to work on hers. And of course, you can always drop a check in the mail or pass one on in person. (Wonder how many checks we'll get in the next week for $30.76!) Thanks again to our 59 wonderful donors and all the others who have offered prayers and well-wishes. Your encouragement means a lot on those cold runs!
We have been surprised on several occasions to see a return label from someone we don't know well, or from another young family with lots of obligations. We'll think maybe they sent $20, only to find a check for $100, $200, even $500! We've begun to realize it's not about how well they know us but how much they've been touched by Leukemia and other blood cancers that drives the donation. (I share this not to make anyone feel bad for not giving more. We really are just as grateful for the $20 donations as for the $500 one.)
Our funniest donation was from one of our Crown students who apparently gave us their weekly tithe right down to the cent! We get a chuckle every time we see that 24 cents on the end of our balance.
With today's mail, we were thrilled to find that Papa Runner needs just $30.76 to reach his minimum goal! (The official minimum is $3900, we rounded up to $4000 for our letters and websites.) So if any of you have been meaning to send us something and just haven't gotten to it, you can go to Papa's webpage and finish out his goal. If he's reached the $3900 mark, you can click the link to Mama's webpage to work on hers. And of course, you can always drop a check in the mail or pass one on in person. (Wonder how many checks we'll get in the next week for $30.76!) Thanks again to our 59 wonderful donors and all the others who have offered prayers and well-wishes. Your encouragement means a lot on those cold runs!
Car Seat Safety
After watching this video, I'm glad we got Smartie a car seat rated to 100 pounds. Sweetie is still riding reverse at 15 months, which is even safer. We have no plans to turn her around any time soon.
Friday, March 7, 2008
Safe in the Arms of Jesus
Grandpa passed last night (Thursday) around 10:00 surrounded by family. It's comforting to know that, although we grieve, we do not grieve as those who have no hope.
Wednesday, March 5, 2008
TNT Update
Marathon training is going great! I've done almost 36 miles total with a longest run of 4.5 miles. Papa Runner is fast approaching 50 with a longest run of 5.5 miles. We've learned to stretch properly which does wonders for achy muscles. We've also learned some "no sweat" exercises, the kind you can do whenever, to strengthen our legs. I've lost 4 pounds already! So I'm very excited to keep going.
Fundraising is going well, too. Our initial 200 letters has gotten us 47 donors for a grand total of $3575! We're almost to the half-way point. You can keep track of our progress at our TNT webpages.
Brett
Jen
Fundraising is going well, too. Our initial 200 letters has gotten us 47 donors for a grand total of $3575! We're almost to the half-way point. You can keep track of our progress at our TNT webpages.
Brett
Jen
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Pet News Peeves
First some updates: No news on Grandpa. Smartie's doctor wants to wait and see if she gets an infection, so no surgery yet.
Now to my News Peeves: I read in the paper an article in which it was stated: Police believe he may have been speeding. This doesn’t make sense. “Believe” implies being sure, “may” implies being unsure. They’re convinced it’s a possibility? Duh! Better wording would be “Police suspect he was speeding.”
Another pet peeve of mine is when an article uses a word/phrase requiring one number, then giving a range. For example, “We will get at least 8-10 inches of snow tonight.” So which is it, at least 8 or at least 10? If you say at least 8 and get 10, you will still be correct. So why make it a range? It's either at least 8 or between 8 and 10.
I hate it when newscasters report that something like dark chocolate or red wine decreases the risk of death. I’m sorry, but the risk of death is and always will be 100%. Everyone dies. It may decrease the risk of early death or the risk of death from a particular disease, but chocolate eaters and wine drinkers will still die eventually.
Yes, I'm crazy!
Now to my News Peeves: I read in the paper an article in which it was stated: Police believe he may have been speeding. This doesn’t make sense. “Believe” implies being sure, “may” implies being unsure. They’re convinced it’s a possibility? Duh! Better wording would be “Police suspect he was speeding.”
Another pet peeve of mine is when an article uses a word/phrase requiring one number, then giving a range. For example, “We will get at least 8-10 inches of snow tonight.” So which is it, at least 8 or at least 10? If you say at least 8 and get 10, you will still be correct. So why make it a range? It's either at least 8 or between 8 and 10.
I hate it when newscasters report that something like dark chocolate or red wine decreases the risk of death. I’m sorry, but the risk of death is and always will be 100%. Everyone dies. It may decrease the risk of early death or the risk of death from a particular disease, but chocolate eaters and wine drinkers will still die eventually.
Yes, I'm crazy!
Monday, March 3, 2008
Two prayer requests
Lots of news at our house today. First, my grandfather is in a coma and probably won't last much longer. It's been expected for a while, and it will be a blessing that he can finally rest in the arms of Jesus. And yet, we're never quite prepared for it. So if you could remember Grandpa Ralph, Grandma Catherine, and the rest of the family, we would all appreciate it. We don't really know at this point if we can expect him to go tonight or last a couple more weeks, but it will probably be soon.
Second, Smartie fell against our computer desk this evening and hit her right ear HARD. I looked in it with a flashlight, and I'm pretty sure her tube popped out. I'll call the doctor first thing tomorrow. We're praying there wasn't damage to the ear drum when it came out. We'll also need to decide if we should put it back in or wait and see how she does infection-wise. It happens to be her worse ear, so I'd think they'll want to put it back. Another surgery! Boo! We'll let you know what we find out.
Second, Smartie fell against our computer desk this evening and hit her right ear HARD. I looked in it with a flashlight, and I'm pretty sure her tube popped out. I'll call the doctor first thing tomorrow. We're praying there wasn't damage to the ear drum when it came out. We'll also need to decide if we should put it back in or wait and see how she does infection-wise. It happens to be her worse ear, so I'd think they'll want to put it back. Another surgery! Boo! We'll let you know what we find out.
Sunday, March 2, 2008
I would like to apologize...
...to Mike Fritz. In my last post, I included a link to his website with the inflamatory label of "spied on." I'm sure this led my readers to view his site through a negative lens. I should have asked and understood his motivation before doing so. I'm sorry.
I've been thinking about how hard it is when we use distance communication like blogging to interpret others' thoughts. We don't have the advantage of body language, tone of voice, or facial expression to help us. I hope you don't mind, Mike, if I use an example from you.
"Others may find it informative to see what type of blogging activity is occurring." This could be interpreted in many ways ranging from the innocent (Those who don't understand what blogging is can use these links to help them learn more about it) to divisive and threatening (Those who hold certain opinions may find it informative [i.e. shocking] to see these links.)
I think we all, and I definitely include myself in this, should be careful not to jump to negative conclusions without understanding exactly what others mean. Again, I apologize for any heartache my post caused.
I've been thinking about how hard it is when we use distance communication like blogging to interpret others' thoughts. We don't have the advantage of body language, tone of voice, or facial expression to help us. I hope you don't mind, Mike, if I use an example from you.
"Others may find it informative to see what type of blogging activity is occurring." This could be interpreted in many ways ranging from the innocent (Those who don't understand what blogging is can use these links to help them learn more about it) to divisive and threatening (Those who hold certain opinions may find it informative [i.e. shocking] to see these links.)
I think we all, and I definitely include myself in this, should be careful not to jump to negative conclusions without understanding exactly what others mean. Again, I apologize for any heartache my post caused.
Saturday, March 1, 2008
Did you know...
Did you know that we are being spied on?!? My blog isn't listed (yet) but some of my comments on friends' blogs have been featured, and several of you my regular readers ARE listed.
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
Monday, February 25, 2008
Best run yet!
I had my best run yet today. I finished 2 miles in ~32 minutes, so 16 minute miles! I had been taking walk breaks with a 5:1 minute ratio, but this time I ran the whole distance. I've found that instead of walk breaks, a 40 second stretch break makes a HUGE difference for me, so I'm stretching instead of walking now.
Friday, February 22, 2008
Smartie narrowly avoids death by angry mama!
Today is Cubs Tickets day. Anyone who has tried to buy tickets from the Cubs knows how crazy this is. I had two computers and two phone lines going all morning. So I set up the kids with a movie, then had lunch ready for them when it was done.
They completely ignored me for the hour and a half I listened to busy signals. But the instant I got through, Smartie's radar went off and here she came! The automated voice said, "Please state the event you are looking for." Smartie yelled, "I want to sit on your LAAAAAAAAP!" The Voice said, "I'm sorry, I don't understand you. Please hold while I transfer you." *mom gives Smartie the Look of DEATH!*
They completely ignored me for the hour and a half I listened to busy signals. But the instant I got through, Smartie's radar went off and here she came! The automated voice said, "Please state the event you are looking for." Smartie yelled, "I want to sit on your LAAAAAAAAP!" The Voice said, "I'm sorry, I don't understand you. Please hold while I transfer you." *mom gives Smartie the Look of DEATH!*
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Happy B-day to Papa Runner, FIL, and Me!
Yep, three birthdays in the Runner family today.
Here are some updates on our Team in Training adventure:
We have raised $1390 so far. It's so much fun to get the mail these days! There is a $1000 minimum per account to continue beyond March 25. We put $1030 in Papa Runner's account, so he has reached his recommittment goal. I still need $640. We'll see what tomorrow's mail brings.
Here are some updates on our Team in Training adventure:
We have raised $1390 so far. It's so much fun to get the mail these days! There is a $1000 minimum per account to continue beyond March 25. We put $1030 in Papa Runner's account, so he has reached his recommittment goal. I still need $640. We'll see what tomorrow's mail brings.
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Alternative Medicine
Has anyone seen or know of an alternative medicine practitioner in the greater Central Illinois area? Homeopathic, naturopathic, herbalist, anything like that? I'm not very happy with traditional medical treatments for my endometriosis and would like to try something else.
Friday, February 15, 2008
Drama Queens
Smartie has always been a drama queen from day one. Today she was upset about something (I never did figure out what.) She came running to me sobing AAAAAAAAAAA. I gave her a hug and kiss and said, "Go finish crying in your room." OOOOOOOKAAAAAAY!
And then Sweetie came up with the fakest drama queen cry you've ever heard AAAAAAAAA! I gave her a hug and kiss and said, "Go finish crying in your room." And off she went giggling like a loon.
And then Sweetie came up with the fakest drama queen cry you've ever heard AAAAAAAAA! I gave her a hug and kiss and said, "Go finish crying in your room." And off she went giggling like a loon.
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
50 Things you Possibly Didn't Know About Me
1. What is in the back seat of your car right now?
Two car seats and maybe a couple of french fries. Papa Runner keeps it pretty clean.
2. When was the last time you threw up?
When I was preggo with Sweetie.
3. What's your favorite curse word?
Oh My Cow.
4. Name 3 people who made you smile today?
Papa Runner, Smartie, and Sweetie. Actually, they're the only people I saw today other than the Kinkos guy who printed my pages upside down on the letterhead. Definitely wasn't smiling at him!
5. What were you doing at 8 am this morning?
Making breakfast--cheerios and fruit, lots of work!
6. What were you doing 30 minutes ago?
Eating fauxTombstone Pizza.
7. What will you be doing 3 hours from now?
I can't answer that :O
8. Have you ever been to a strip club?
Of course not!
9. What is the last thing you said aloud?
Nobody talk to Mommy, I'm in a bad mood!
10. What is the best ice cream flavor?
Chocolate fudge.
11. What was the last thing you had to drink?
Water
12. What are you wearing right now?
Jeans and a sweater.
13. What was the last thing you ate?
See 6
14. Have you bought any new clothing items this week?
Yes, a sports bra...with 11 clasps!
15. When was the last time you ran?
5:00.
16. What's the last sporting event you watched?
The Super Bowl. I'm still laughing! Go Giants!
17. Who is the last person you emailed?
Megan
18. Ever go camping?
Um, I'm married to an Eagle Scout. We do REAL camping.
19. Do you have a tan?
Horrors! Of course not!
20. Do you drink your soda from a straw?
Rarely drink the stuff since I nearly overdosed on it.
21. What did your last IM say?
22. Are you someone's best friend?
Yes, I think.
23. What are you doing tomorrow?
Attempting to clean the bathrooms, if I can make it off the couch.
24. Where is your mom right now?
Ummm at her house?
25. Look to your left, what do you see?
Coats that aren't hanging in the closet.
26. What color is your watch?
Purple.
27. What do you think of when you think of Australia?
Colby Donaldson. Sad, I know.
28. Would you consider plastic surgery?
Have already had it (for medical reasons, not vanity) and will probably need it again.
29. What is your birthstone?
Amethyst.
30. Do you go in at a fast food place or just hit the drive thru?
Usually drive thru.
31. How many kids do you want?
Today? None.
32. Do you have a dog?
Yes, her name is Jessica and she died after chasing the cats. (Inside joke. Real answer--Not bloody likely!)
33. Last person you talked to on the phone?
An answering machine.
34. Have you met anyone famous?
J.C. Chasez, before N*SYNC, back in his MMC days. Really! Why doesn't anyone ever believe me?
35. Any plans today?
Just catching up on the blogosphere.
36. How many states have you lived in?
One. Confusion.
37. Ever go to college?
Yes, and see how useful that was!
38. Where are you right now?
Lost in space.
39. Biggest annoyance in your life right now?
See 9.
40. Last song listened to?
Days of Elijah--Amazing Love Live!
41. Are you allergic to anything?
Latex.
42. Favorite pair of shoes you wear all the time?
Fluffy pink slippers.
43. Are you jealous of anyone?
No.
44. Is anyone jealous of you?
LOL!
45. What time is it?
6:57
46. Do any of your friends have children?
Have you seen how full the baby room is lately?
47. Do you eat healthy?
I'm improving in that area.
48. What do you usually do during the day?
Clean up messes.
49. How old will you be turning on your next birthday?
29
50. How did you get one of your scars?
I was allowed to pick one Chicken Pox to scratch as much as I wanted. It prevented lots of other scars, I'm sure.
Two car seats and maybe a couple of french fries. Papa Runner keeps it pretty clean.
2. When was the last time you threw up?
When I was preggo with Sweetie.
3. What's your favorite curse word?
Oh My Cow.
4. Name 3 people who made you smile today?
Papa Runner, Smartie, and Sweetie. Actually, they're the only people I saw today other than the Kinkos guy who printed my pages upside down on the letterhead. Definitely wasn't smiling at him!
5. What were you doing at 8 am this morning?
Making breakfast--cheerios and fruit, lots of work!
6. What were you doing 30 minutes ago?
Eating fauxTombstone Pizza.
7. What will you be doing 3 hours from now?
I can't answer that :O
8. Have you ever been to a strip club?
Of course not!
9. What is the last thing you said aloud?
Nobody talk to Mommy, I'm in a bad mood!
10. What is the best ice cream flavor?
Chocolate fudge.
11. What was the last thing you had to drink?
Water
12. What are you wearing right now?
Jeans and a sweater.
13. What was the last thing you ate?
See 6
14. Have you bought any new clothing items this week?
Yes, a sports bra...with 11 clasps!
15. When was the last time you ran?
5:00.
16. What's the last sporting event you watched?
The Super Bowl. I'm still laughing! Go Giants!
17. Who is the last person you emailed?
Megan
18. Ever go camping?
Um, I'm married to an Eagle Scout. We do REAL camping.
19. Do you have a tan?
Horrors! Of course not!
20. Do you drink your soda from a straw?
Rarely drink the stuff since I nearly overdosed on it.
21. What did your last IM say?
22. Are you someone's best friend?
Yes, I think.
23. What are you doing tomorrow?
Attempting to clean the bathrooms, if I can make it off the couch.
24. Where is your mom right now?
Ummm at her house?
25. Look to your left, what do you see?
Coats that aren't hanging in the closet.
26. What color is your watch?
Purple.
27. What do you think of when you think of Australia?
Colby Donaldson. Sad, I know.
28. Would you consider plastic surgery?
Have already had it (for medical reasons, not vanity) and will probably need it again.
29. What is your birthstone?
Amethyst.
30. Do you go in at a fast food place or just hit the drive thru?
Usually drive thru.
31. How many kids do you want?
Today? None.
32. Do you have a dog?
Yes, her name is Jessica and she died after chasing the cats. (Inside joke. Real answer--Not bloody likely!)
33. Last person you talked to on the phone?
An answering machine.
34. Have you met anyone famous?
J.C. Chasez, before N*SYNC, back in his MMC days. Really! Why doesn't anyone ever believe me?
35. Any plans today?
Just catching up on the blogosphere.
36. How many states have you lived in?
One. Confusion.
37. Ever go to college?
Yes, and see how useful that was!
38. Where are you right now?
Lost in space.
39. Biggest annoyance in your life right now?
See 9.
40. Last song listened to?
Days of Elijah--Amazing Love Live!
41. Are you allergic to anything?
Latex.
42. Favorite pair of shoes you wear all the time?
Fluffy pink slippers.
43. Are you jealous of anyone?
No.
44. Is anyone jealous of you?
LOL!
45. What time is it?
6:57
46. Do any of your friends have children?
Have you seen how full the baby room is lately?
47. Do you eat healthy?
I'm improving in that area.
48. What do you usually do during the day?
Clean up messes.
49. How old will you be turning on your next birthday?
29
50. How did you get one of your scars?
I was allowed to pick one Chicken Pox to scratch as much as I wanted. It prevented lots of other scars, I'm sure.
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Playing in the snow
Smartie wanted to play in the snow today, so she went out for about 15 minutes. Do you know what her favorite thing is about playing in the snow?
--fresh air?
--getting some alone time? (Sweetie's too young to go out.)
--making snowballs?
All of these are great, but her number one reason for wanting to go out is because she gets hot chocolate when she comes back in. In fact, one day she insisted on going out--snow pants, boots, coat, hat, mittens--walked once around the house, and rang the doorbell demanding hot chocolate! Little stinker!
--fresh air?
--getting some alone time? (Sweetie's too young to go out.)
--making snowballs?
All of these are great, but her number one reason for wanting to go out is because she gets hot chocolate when she comes back in. In fact, one day she insisted on going out--snow pants, boots, coat, hat, mittens--walked once around the house, and rang the doorbell demanding hot chocolate! Little stinker!
Friday, February 8, 2008
Web site is up
http://www.active.com/donate/tntil/tntilBHeinig is the link for our Team in Training website. I'll try to keep it updated with our training progress. So far, we've done our first week of on-your-own training, and tomorrow we train with the team. Papa Runner has done 6 miles, and I've done 4. (He has a faster pace than mine.)
Monday, February 4, 2008
Super Bowl
Last night we had a Super Bowl/Welcome Home Papa Runner (YAY) party. I had a hard time knowing who to root against for the big game.
On one hand, the Patriots are arrogant and snooty and needed to be taken down a peg.
On the other hand, Eli Manning is a punk and I have a hard time rooting for him.
On one hand, it would have been cool to see the Patriots make history.
On the other hand, I'm a sucker for underdogs (I am a Cub fan, after all.)
When my hubby (YAY) decided to root for the Pats, I tried to join him, but in the end I couldn't do it. I was rooting for the Giants. I admit, I laughed like a loon for, like, 5 minutes when they pulled out the win. The look on Bellichek's face was...no different than usual, but still priceless!
Before the game, we informally made predictions on the results. And the person with the best guess was...Smartie! She picked the Giants (because they're tall) to win by 4 (because that's how old she is.)
On one hand, the Patriots are arrogant and snooty and needed to be taken down a peg.
On the other hand, Eli Manning is a punk and I have a hard time rooting for him.
On one hand, it would have been cool to see the Patriots make history.
On the other hand, I'm a sucker for underdogs (I am a Cub fan, after all.)
When my hubby (YAY) decided to root for the Pats, I tried to join him, but in the end I couldn't do it. I was rooting for the Giants. I admit, I laughed like a loon for, like, 5 minutes when they pulled out the win. The look on Bellichek's face was...no different than usual, but still priceless!
Before the game, we informally made predictions on the results. And the person with the best guess was...Smartie! She picked the Giants (because they're tall) to win by 4 (because that's how old she is.)
Saturday, February 2, 2008
My First Official Workout
I was ready to complete my first official training workout.
But it snowed 8 inches last night. I have to shovel the driveway first. (I miss Papa Runner!)
But they haven't plowed the street yet. In fact, they didn't plow until 12:50! No point in scooping the driveway if the street isn't plowed. I think I'll work out at home today.
Lucky me, I didn't have to shovel after all. My FIL tried to come help but got stuck trying to get down our street. And guess who came along to save the day? Clark! He pushed Dad out, then came and did my drive! I'll have to make him some brownies.
Thursday, January 31, 2008
Pet Peeves
I have a weird pet peeve. When two cars are facing each other at a 4-way stop and one is going straight and the other is turning left, the one going straight has the right of way. This isn't just a random rule, it's actually more efficient for the flow of traffic. It drives me crazy when the left-turner cuts in front of the straight-away-er.
I know what you're thinking. What's so unusual about that? Lots of people hate bad driving. But the thing is, I get just as upset, if not more so, at the kind soul going straight who waves people in front of her. These sweet people are just trying to be nice, and all I can think is, "You just wasted 3 seconds of everyone's time! Just GO when you're supposed to!" And it's even worse when you have two kind souls waving at each other and holding up everyone behind them!
So I shared mine, what's yours?
I know what you're thinking. What's so unusual about that? Lots of people hate bad driving. But the thing is, I get just as upset, if not more so, at the kind soul going straight who waves people in front of her. These sweet people are just trying to be nice, and all I can think is, "You just wasted 3 seconds of everyone's time! Just GO when you're supposed to!" And it's even worse when you have two kind souls waving at each other and holding up everyone behind them!
So I shared mine, what's yours?
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Random updates
Sweetie's finger--
We had Sweetie's follow up last Friday. There is no sign of infection! No need to worry about the bone! We are informally doing PT and massage every day. He wants to monitor her every so often, and maybe when she is older we'll need to work on the scar to regain her full movement. But she has most of the range of motion, just can't straighten it all the way, and it doesn't seem to hurt her. He thinks she doesn't use it because of habit, and there isn't anything wrong with it to keep her from using it. Thank you for all of the prayers on her behalf!
Papa Runner in India
Papa safely arrived in India. Other than a rough bedtime the other night, the girls are handling things okay. We'll all sleep better when he's home, though.
Team in Training
We officially start training in two weeks! I'm not much of a runner, but I am big on goals. I'm excited about doing this. We heard there may be a double jogging stroller available from a friend of a friend, so that's another answer to prayer. Still don't have our website quite ready, but I'll let you know when it's up.
We had Sweetie's follow up last Friday. There is no sign of infection! No need to worry about the bone! We are informally doing PT and massage every day. He wants to monitor her every so often, and maybe when she is older we'll need to work on the scar to regain her full movement. But she has most of the range of motion, just can't straighten it all the way, and it doesn't seem to hurt her. He thinks she doesn't use it because of habit, and there isn't anything wrong with it to keep her from using it. Thank you for all of the prayers on her behalf!
Papa Runner in India
Papa safely arrived in India. Other than a rough bedtime the other night, the girls are handling things okay. We'll all sleep better when he's home, though.
Team in Training
We officially start training in two weeks! I'm not much of a runner, but I am big on goals. I'm excited about doing this. We heard there may be a double jogging stroller available from a friend of a friend, so that's another answer to prayer. Still don't have our website quite ready, but I'll let you know when it's up.
Friday, January 25, 2008
Single Motherhood
Papa Runner left this morning for a 9 day trip to India. MUCH better than the 3 months last time, but still I'm not looking forward to a week by myself. The weekends have lots of plans, so they'll go fast, but the week will be long. Anyone up for a girl's night out, maybe Thursday? We could go out, or everyone could come to my place.
Even though Papa has a ticket to fly into Bloomington, I'm picking him up at O'Hare. Because I miss him that much? No, because the Bloomington flight is due to land just 1 hour before the Super Bowl and is very unreliable . If I pick him up, we can be sure to be home in time for the game. AND we're hosting his family this year, so there will already be people at our house waiting for us. Yay! :)
Even though Papa has a ticket to fly into Bloomington, I'm picking him up at O'Hare. Because I miss him that much? No, because the Bloomington flight is due to land just 1 hour before the Super Bowl and is very unreliable . If I pick him up, we can be sure to be home in time for the game. AND we're hosting his family this year, so there will already be people at our house waiting for us. Yay! :)
Friday, January 18, 2008
I HATE IT!!! HATEHATEHATEHATEHATE
I was doing some research into clothes shopping. I confirmed something I've long suspected. Do you know what the difference is between a size 16 Misses and a size 16 Women's? The Women's size has an extra 2 inches in the bust and hips. In other words, Women's sizes are ideal for curvy women.
I went to Victoria's Secret today and got professionally measured. I'm currently a DD cup. I think everyone would agree that DD = curvy. So Women's size styles would look great on me.
The problem? I'm only 5'2" and have a small bone structure. So even though I'm 15 pounds overweight (and believe me, it shows) I'm still only a size 10. Women's sizes don't start until at least 14, usually 16. So I need to gain 40 pounds or so to be able to fit into a flattering style! Either that or learn to make my own clothes. (Without a pattern, because they don't make size 10W patterns, either!)
There have to be stores that sell clothes for small but curvy women. I wonder where movie stars with crazy implants shop. Of course, they're movie stars so it's probably somewhere out of my price range. *grumble*
I went to Victoria's Secret today and got professionally measured. I'm currently a DD cup. I think everyone would agree that DD = curvy. So Women's size styles would look great on me.
The problem? I'm only 5'2" and have a small bone structure. So even though I'm 15 pounds overweight (and believe me, it shows) I'm still only a size 10. Women's sizes don't start until at least 14, usually 16. So I need to gain 40 pounds or so to be able to fit into a flattering style! Either that or learn to make my own clothes. (Without a pattern, because they don't make size 10W patterns, either!)
There have to be stores that sell clothes for small but curvy women. I wonder where movie stars with crazy implants shop. Of course, they're movie stars so it's probably somewhere out of my price range. *grumble*
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
13.1 Here We Come!
Papa Runner and I signed up for Team In Training last night. We're going to run a half marathon in San Diego on June 1! We'll be raising money (minimum $4000 each) for research for Leukemia and other blood cancers. We'll have a website where you can make online donations if you feel so moved, and as soon as it's up and running I'll post a link. Anyone else from the area who wants to join us, just let me know!
ETA:
I’ve been thinking up fundraiser events and wondered if any of you, or someone you know, would be interested in any of these:
Girls’ Night Out--Cover fee of, say, $20, I provide drinks/dessert
Baby Wearing Clinic--$10 class on why and how to wear your baby, with handmade slings, wraps, and mei tais available for sale
Karaoke Party
Cubs Game Viewing Party
If you would be interested in attending any of these, or if you have any other ideas, leave me a comment.
ETA:
I’ve been thinking up fundraiser events and wondered if any of you, or someone you know, would be interested in any of these:
Girls’ Night Out--Cover fee of, say, $20, I provide drinks/dessert
Baby Wearing Clinic--$10 class on why and how to wear your baby, with handmade slings, wraps, and mei tais available for sale
Karaoke Party
Cubs Game Viewing Party
If you would be interested in attending any of these, or if you have any other ideas, leave me a comment.
Monday, January 14, 2008
My Blog's Name
We were with some friends last night, and they asked about the name of my blog. "The Cover and Title Page" comes from my favorite passage of my favorite book series, the Chronicles of Narnia. In the last two pages of the last book, the Narnian world has ended and the characters have gone to Aslan's Country (Heaven.) This passage never fails to move me to tears:
...but the things that began to happen after that were so great and beautiful that I cannot write them. And for us this is the end of all the stories, and we can most truly say that they all lived happily ever after. But for them it was only the beginning of the real story. All their life in this world and all their adventures in Narnia had only been the cover and the title page: now at last they were beginning Chapter One of the Great Story, which no one on earth has read: which goes on for ever: in which every chapter is better than the one before.
So my blog is about my earthly life, the cover and title page, and I look forward to beginning the real adventure some day in Heaven.
(Quotation from The Last Battle by C.S. Lewis)
...but the things that began to happen after that were so great and beautiful that I cannot write them. And for us this is the end of all the stories, and we can most truly say that they all lived happily ever after. But for them it was only the beginning of the real story. All their life in this world and all their adventures in Narnia had only been the cover and the title page: now at last they were beginning Chapter One of the Great Story, which no one on earth has read: which goes on for ever: in which every chapter is better than the one before.
So my blog is about my earthly life, the cover and title page, and I look forward to beginning the real adventure some day in Heaven.
(Quotation from The Last Battle by C.S. Lewis)
Thursday, January 10, 2008
Disney Princesses
Smartie is very into Disney Princesses right now. The only video she's actually seen is Cinderella, the least violent/scary one, at grandma's house. She has princess CDs, books, dresses, dolls, and just goes on and on about her imaginary princess friends. I even caught her putting one of the dresses on Sweetie and calling her Aurora. In fact, she insisted that everyone else call her Aurora, too, and Smartie only answers to Cinderella half the time.
I'm not sure how happy I am about this. Yes, all girls want to be princesses, it's a very normal stage. But Disney's version of LOVE is not one I want my girls growing up thinking is the ideal. Think about it--Cinderella never had an actual conversation with her Prince, they just danced. He didn't even know her name, and yet they get married and live Happily Ever Aftertm. Same with Aurora and Phillip. Snow White's Prince shows up one day, finds her dead/sleeping, and just starts macking on her, how creepy!!! Belle's the only one who gets to know her Prince's character before committing her heart (yay Belle!) Am I making too big a deal out of this? Is it harmless fun? And are there any Princess stories (not Disney) that have a more healthy picture of love? Maybe I should just write my own....
I'm not sure how happy I am about this. Yes, all girls want to be princesses, it's a very normal stage. But Disney's version of LOVE is not one I want my girls growing up thinking is the ideal. Think about it--Cinderella never had an actual conversation with her Prince, they just danced. He didn't even know her name, and yet they get married and live Happily Ever Aftertm. Same with Aurora and Phillip. Snow White's Prince shows up one day, finds her dead/sleeping, and just starts macking on her, how creepy!!! Belle's the only one who gets to know her Prince's character before committing her heart (yay Belle!) Am I making too big a deal out of this? Is it harmless fun? And are there any Princess stories (not Disney) that have a more healthy picture of love? Maybe I should just write my own....
Tuesday, January 8, 2008
It's nice they can entertain each other
My girls had so much fun today. Sweetie is 13 months and really close to walking, and she's finally able to play with Smartie in a way they both enjoy. They spent nearly an hour playing "picnic," with a quilt on the floor and all the play food in the house. They fed each other and their dolls, and I got a nice nap in! I like this new game a whole lot better than their other favorite--"Throw toys an inch from Sweetie's head and laugh."
Saturday, January 5, 2008
And Now for Something Completely Different...
We had a consultation with a second doctor yesterday. Dr. A couldn't fit us in, so we saw his hand specialist partner, Dr. Mahoney. Dr. M's opinion is completely different from Dr. D's.
He showed us the MRI, and pointed out a very small white spot which is causing the concern. It's definitely fluid of some kind, but it may not be an infection. It could just be left over from the earlier infection. Dr. M's opinion is that, if it were a bacterial infection that's been festering since September, it should look a whole lot worse than it does. He took his own set of X-rays, and would like see her again in 3 weeks to see if there is any change that would show an active infection.
Dr. M really hesitates to operate. He says it would be a whole lot of trauma inflicted on a very small area and he'd like to avoid that if he can. Obviously, if it does turn out to be an infection we'll have to go ahead with the surgery. But if it's just fluid, he recommends massage and physical therapy. She's a little young to learn exercises, so he said we should just encourage her to use it as much as possible. Later on, if the scar is still very prominent and limiting movement, we can think about having it removed when she's a bit older and bigger.
So we're waiting again. I'm glad we didn't jump straight into the surgery and got this other opinion. I just hope we're doing the right thing.
He showed us the MRI, and pointed out a very small white spot which is causing the concern. It's definitely fluid of some kind, but it may not be an infection. It could just be left over from the earlier infection. Dr. M's opinion is that, if it were a bacterial infection that's been festering since September, it should look a whole lot worse than it does. He took his own set of X-rays, and would like see her again in 3 weeks to see if there is any change that would show an active infection.
Dr. M really hesitates to operate. He says it would be a whole lot of trauma inflicted on a very small area and he'd like to avoid that if he can. Obviously, if it does turn out to be an infection we'll have to go ahead with the surgery. But if it's just fluid, he recommends massage and physical therapy. She's a little young to learn exercises, so he said we should just encourage her to use it as much as possible. Later on, if the scar is still very prominent and limiting movement, we can think about having it removed when she's a bit older and bigger.
So we're waiting again. I'm glad we didn't jump straight into the surgery and got this other opinion. I just hope we're doing the right thing.
Tuesday, January 1, 2008
Consultation
I wasn't planning to update until we got the call from the new surgeon, but since it's not likely to come today I'll go ahead and let you know how our appointment went yesterday.
We met with Dr. Dodgin, our current surgeon, and he explained that the infection is just a small spot. He found an infectious disease specialist, Dr. Gray (in Peoria) who will treat her, but he wants a culture first to make sure he customizes the antibiotics as much as possible. So the surgery must come first.
Dr. D said he's willing to do the surgery at St. Joe's, or he'll refer us to Dr. Akeson (also in Peoria) who, while not formally trained in pediatric surgery, handles most of the pediatric cases in the area and has lots of experience. The advantage of Dr. D is that we'd be in town for the surgery and all follow up care, but he doesn't have a lot of experience working on children. With Dr. A we'd have to go to Peoria, but he has more experience and we'd have both doctors in one place conferring in person. Of course, it all depends on if Dr. A can get us in. I've heard he's very busy.
Dr. D did a great job of explaining the surgery. (If you're squeamish, you should skip to the next paragraph.) Basically, they'll clean out the scar tissue in the skin/muscle, then split the bone open and clean out everything that's inside. As long as the shell is there, a baby will regrow the interior with no problem. They'll insert a pin for about 3 weeks to make sure it heals straight. It may be stiff for awhile, but with as young as she is, she should eventually regain full movement. They'll definitely keep her overnight, possibly two if Dr. G wants to do a round of IV antibiotics.
Dr. D said the situation is not an emergency, but it is urgent. He'd like to see it done in the next two weeks. We're hoping we can get in to see Dr. A by the end of the week or early next week, then have the surgery by the end of next week. Then she'll be on antibiotics likely for several months. I'm so ready to have this done and behind us. Let's hope Dr. A can get us in!
We met with Dr. Dodgin, our current surgeon, and he explained that the infection is just a small spot. He found an infectious disease specialist, Dr. Gray (in Peoria) who will treat her, but he wants a culture first to make sure he customizes the antibiotics as much as possible. So the surgery must come first.
Dr. D said he's willing to do the surgery at St. Joe's, or he'll refer us to Dr. Akeson (also in Peoria) who, while not formally trained in pediatric surgery, handles most of the pediatric cases in the area and has lots of experience. The advantage of Dr. D is that we'd be in town for the surgery and all follow up care, but he doesn't have a lot of experience working on children. With Dr. A we'd have to go to Peoria, but he has more experience and we'd have both doctors in one place conferring in person. Of course, it all depends on if Dr. A can get us in. I've heard he's very busy.
Dr. D did a great job of explaining the surgery. (If you're squeamish, you should skip to the next paragraph.) Basically, they'll clean out the scar tissue in the skin/muscle, then split the bone open and clean out everything that's inside. As long as the shell is there, a baby will regrow the interior with no problem. They'll insert a pin for about 3 weeks to make sure it heals straight. It may be stiff for awhile, but with as young as she is, she should eventually regain full movement. They'll definitely keep her overnight, possibly two if Dr. G wants to do a round of IV antibiotics.
Dr. D said the situation is not an emergency, but it is urgent. He'd like to see it done in the next two weeks. We're hoping we can get in to see Dr. A by the end of the week or early next week, then have the surgery by the end of next week. Then she'll be on antibiotics likely for several months. I'm so ready to have this done and behind us. Let's hope Dr. A can get us in!
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